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| Yes, my T and I flirt with each other |
   
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| I flirt with my T, they don't flirt back |
  
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| My T flirts with me, I don't flirt back |
  
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| We never flirt |
  
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#1
Sep 23, 2012, 09:28 AM
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I'm curious as to how often this happens in therapy.
Once you have that connection do you and your T joke around in a flirtatious manner at all? |
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Sep 23, 2012, 09:44 AM
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Absolutely not.
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Sep 23, 2012, 10:15 AM
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Absolutely no way, I would like too though!
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Sep 23, 2012, 10:18 AM
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NO way ...ew no.
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Sep 23, 2012, 10:24 AM
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i'd say we flirt because we have in the past, and we are both probably what you would call compulsive flirts, but since he returned from a 2 week vacation 2 weeks ago, it's been like a long drawn out adult reenactment of the Strange Situation experiment - 6 sessions, and i'm still not used to him being back, I still haven't acknowledged his return.
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#6
Sep 23, 2012, 10:26 AM
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My t reminds me of Mr Rogers. So that's a no. Lol
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#7
Sep 23, 2012, 10:56 AM
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We joke around a lot, but I don't believe I've ever done so in a flirting way....
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#8
Sep 23, 2012, 11:21 AM
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No. To me he is a safe father figure.
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#9
Sep 23, 2012, 11:22 AM
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We're both straight females, so no. We joke around a lot though.
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#10
Sep 23, 2012, 11:31 AM
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We joke around, but it's not flirting.
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Sep 23, 2012, 11:35 AM
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I'm bi, she's straight and 20 years older than me. We joke around, but it's definitely not flirting.
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#12
Sep 23, 2012, 12:00 PM
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In a non sexual way, yes.
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#13
Sep 23, 2012, 12:05 PM
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No way. He's the age of a father to me. BARF.
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#14
Sep 23, 2012, 12:21 PM
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Nope, just would be inapproprate. We joke around alot, but nothing could be interperted as flirting.
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Sep 23, 2012, 01:02 PM
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No way!
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Sep 23, 2012, 01:54 PM
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#17
Sep 23, 2012, 02:08 PM
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we ....banter, I guess, but I wouldn't call it flirting at all in any way. that would just be...eww weird.
shes only about 15 years older than me, but I would say I view her in more of a nurturing role than a sexual one. |
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Sep 23, 2012, 02:08 PM
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and maybe "and how do you feel about that?" (sorry i'm just messing with you, dont take offense. ) |
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#19
Sep 23, 2012, 04:05 PM
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Nope and glad he doesn't. It's a boundry problem I've had with men. I can't tell you how many unavailable/married men would flirt with me when I was in college. It messed with my head.
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#20
Sep 23, 2012, 04:15 PM
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Does flirtatious joking around involve sexual humor? How is it different from regular joking around?
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#21
Sep 23, 2012, 06:21 PM
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Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
I don't know how to flirt. My therapist does not interest me in that way. |
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#22
Sep 23, 2012, 06:56 PM
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I think my past Ts have always thought I flirt but I just get anxious and laugh at everything when I'm uncomfortable which is usually frequently. To add to that - I talk about sex a lot so my Ts have always dropped little inappropriate jokes once in awhile just to lighten the mood, I'm a real joker and I turn my Ts into jokers. We always had a good time though, I think most of my Ts found me entertaining because the majority offered to see me more than once a week.
Anyway, I don't think flirting is damaging. All fun and games when you spend time and secret sharing with someone. |
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#23
Sep 23, 2012, 07:00 PM
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Good poll!
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Sep 23, 2012, 07:02 PM
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An important aspect of flirting is that both parties know that it's just a game. If one of them doesn't know that, it could be sexual harassment.
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#25
Sep 23, 2012, 07:04 PM
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We're both straight females, so no. We do joke around, though.
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