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Nov 15, 2012, 01:25 PM
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Just in time! as she leaves for vacation today. I saw her two days in a row (part 1 and part 2 of arguing if you will). We ended on good terms but I was still feeling iffy about it. So I texted her. And she offered to call me to talk about it.
She said, "I understand." "You were trying to solve the issue the only way you knew how." She told me that I shouldnt feel guilty or sorry for the way I felt about it, and for making a big deal out of it. I am so grteful that she said those things. It let me see that we can disagree but also still respect the other person's opinions. She didn't invalidate my feelings, but instead let me know that it was ok to feel what I was feeling, even if they didn't make sense or go along with what she thought. That is worth more to me than anything else. Have a great vacation t! See you next week! 
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Nov 15, 2012, 02:02 PM
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 ((Swimmy))
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Nov 15, 2012, 02:19 PM
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thats great news!
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Nov 15, 2012, 03:03 PM
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Pleased for you
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Nov 15, 2012, 03:36 PM
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swimmy this is great to hear. such good work on your part .it is so hard to trust i know that. you dealt with this so head on .you are amazing i hope her vacation goes by fast for you
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Nov 15, 2012, 03:38 PM
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Awesome, therapy in motion, I love it!
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Nov 15, 2012, 04:57 PM
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Glad to hear things got themselves worked out.
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Nov 15, 2012, 05:10 PM
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Yay, thats brilliant news miswimmy
I am glad you managed to sort it out and it actually feels like your t really cares from what you post on here.
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Nov 15, 2012, 07:07 PM
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Nov 15, 2012, 10:08 PM
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Hoooray!!!!!!!!
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Nov 16, 2012, 01:18 AM
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Very glad to hear that
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Nov 17, 2012, 12:20 AM
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very good to hear.
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~ 
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