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Old Feb 27, 2013, 09:33 AM
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Granite - I too have a bad reaction to the therapist's attempts at empathy (at least I think that is what she is going for). I usually react with anger, but sometimes great anxiety.

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Old Feb 27, 2013, 10:43 AM
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For you, she's a good mom. That response would drive me bonkers. I wouldn't give that sort of response to my daughter either. With my daughter I would say something like "aww, I'm sorry" and make her some tea. If she wanted to talk I'd ask her what was so stressful and listen. If not, then we'd sit and watch tv together. She still puts her head on my shoulder or holds my hand.
awww that sounds so sweet wiki ......i wish i could experience what that felt like. and what it feels like to know that you have that when you need it.
good for you being a good mom.
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Old Feb 27, 2013, 10:46 AM
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Something this thread has me thinking about is - I don't think there is a response that I would like other than "yea" or maybe "there there" - anything else is too much, over the top, horrible. I don't think I like being nurtured - it is awful. I don't have a fantasy of what good or tolerable nurturing would be. Maybe that is why I don't think of the therapist as being mother - lite. I don't want advice or intervention from the therapist either. Knowledge I am okay with.
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