[silenthill]

I did what i though was right, i just want to move on,but ex T has a blog with me in it, God why did i trust her with my life story

[~EnlightenMe~]

Did she include your name or details? I am sorry this happened to you.

[CantExplain]

((SilentHill))

That sucks.

[silenthill]

This is in xT words, --- The woman who filed the complaint that very publicly cost me my license told me, before she filed it, that she was planning it "to bring me down," and she relied on an elastic version of truth to do it. That's okay. (Don't be impressed--it took me three years to get to this point.) She has gone through more pain than I can ever imagine, and I doubt if "bringing me down" gave her anything more than a few weeks of a shallow sort of satisfaction. I'm sure she never meant to set me free. Being a therapist, particularly in a small town, requires a sort of public blank-slate anonymity. Trying to maintain the uberprofessional persona had become wearisome. Now I can write what I think and feel and post it for the world to see

[likelife]

Ouch, ouch, ouch. And also, if she is so deluded to think that you set her free, well, good grief, I don't even have words. I'm so sorry she's doing this to you.

[SallyBrown]

Originally Posted by silenthill

This is in xT words, --- The woman who filed the complaint that very publicly cost me my license told me, before she filed it, that she was planning it "to bring me down," and she relied on an elastic version of truth to do it. That's okay. (Don't be impressed--it took me three years to get to this point.) She has gone through more pain than I can ever imagine, and I doubt if "bringing me down" gave her anything more than a few weeks of a shallow sort of satisfaction. I'm sure she never meant to set me free. Being a therapist, particularly in a small town, requires a sort of public blank-slate anonymity. Trying to maintain the uberprofessional persona had become wearisome. Now I can write what I think and feel and post it for the world to see

If you weren't in so much pain, her calling her personal conduct maintaining an "uberprofessional persona" would be HILARIOUS. What a moron. How pathetic is that -- her silver lining for losing her ability to practice as a therapist is HAVING A BLOG. Seriously. How sad is that? Yeah baby, you're free now! Ugh.

I'm SO sorry. Try not to read her blog, she's a horrible person.

[ECHOES]

If the case was public, she may be committing slander here...

She's really pathetic and unbalanced. I'm glad she's no longer anyone's t.

[Syra]

Originally Posted by silenthill

I did what i though was right, i just want to move on,but ex T has a blog with me in it, God why did i trust her with my life story

I'm so sorry. That sounds soooooooooo painful.

I trusted someone who betrayed me too. Not as badly, and it still hurt very very badly. And she quoted me without my permission (in fact I specifically stated I didn't want to be quoted - it seems she had already written the article before she asked my permission) - and that hurt. I thought she was using me for her own unhealthy process and I didn't like it. And in your case sounds worse.

I don't mean to go off on my story. I am so very sorry.

[Anne2.0]

She's really showing her true colors. Even if her license was suspended, a professional and honorable person would respect client confidentiality. Just because she no longer has a license and is not bound because of it to keep confidences, doesn't mean that she SHOULDN'T. If she cared about your well being as much as her own selfish motives and interests, she wouldn't be writing her blog. She just proved that she deserved to have her license revoked.

Please, don't read that s*h*i*t.

Contact an attorney. Seriously. In our state, that could constitute libel.

[silenthill]

Here is what kills me that she wrote, its like what?----I am a former psychotherapist and habitual entreprenuer who finds herself having to start all over. Because one, the thought of working for someone else tends to give me hives, and two, the state in which I live thinks I shouldn't have a license to practice therapy (that's a story I will get to at some point), starting over for me doesn't mean just going out and getting another job in my chosen field.

[ECHOES]

"Habitual Entrepreneur"??? wth is that?
She might add "delusional" and "unethical" and a few other choice words to that list.

Blogs are just blogs, anyone can write them and it doesn't mean they have anything to say or that what they say is truth or important. She is having to make a new life for herself and that is because of choices she made. Writing a blog to moan and groan and throw responsibility aside/blame others, instead of getting on with her life, just makes her look worse and worse. She really doesn't get it. She should have be ordered to undergo extensive therapy for a few years...

Like others have suggested, as hard as it is, it would be a good idea to not go there and read anymore.

You did the right thing and made the psychotherapy community better.
She can't hurt you anymore, silenthill.

[anilam]

Originally Posted by My kids are cool

Contact an attorney. Seriously. In our state, that could constitute libel.

At least discuss it with your lawyer- here it could be considered a libel too.
BTW in my country Ts are bound to protect clients privacy even after their licence is revoked/they stop being Ts- I'd be surprised if US laws were less strict.
Gee she IS a real piece of work.

[taylor43]

)(((((((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))))))) Im so sorry hun it must hurt you so much more. She should be in jail!

[WePow]

Sending you big hugs!!

[silenthill]

Thank you every one for letting me come here, and listening to me, You all ROCK!! Some one that knows xT wrote me a email telling me about xTs blog, i really don't what to know about what she is doing, i'm trying really hard to move on,and not even think about her,and what she did to me,even though that is hard when my husband gets the bill every month, any way i don't think any thing she does in her life will work out for her,i'm a true believer in Karma,and as far as talking about me,well if she doesn't use my name,then i say go for it,if this makes her feel good,but i also know that most ppl that what to know the truth can look her up on doh. So what do you guys think? I think i'm getting a little stronger

Originally Posted by silenthill

Thank you every one for letting me come here, and listening to me, You all ROCK!! Some one that knows xT wrote me a email telling me about xTs blog, i really don't what to know about what she is doing, i'm trying really hard to move on,and not even think about her,and what she did to me,even though that is hard when my husband gets the bill every month, any way i don't think any thing she does in her life will work out for her,i'm a true believer in Karma,and as far as talking about me,well if she doesn't use my name,then i say go for it,if this makes her feel good,but i also know that most ppl that what to know the truth can look her up on doh. So what do you guys think? I think i'm getting a little stronger

Whats the blog....Ill post a few questions surrounding her previous career..LOL

[Syra]

Originally Posted by silenthill

Thank you every one for letting me come here, and listening to me, You all ROCK!! Some one that knows xT wrote me a email telling me about xTs blog, i really don't what to know about what she is doing, i'm trying really hard to move on,and not even think about her,and what she did to me,even though that is hard when my husband gets the bill every month, any way i don't think any thing she does in her life will work out for her,i'm a true believer in Karma,and as far as talking about me,well if she doesn't use my name,then i say go for it,if this makes her feel good,but i also know that most ppl that what to know the truth can look her up on doh. So what do you guys think? I think i'm getting a little stronger

It sounds like you are working really hard on yourself, and I want you to know that I see that. It looks to me like you are getting stronger too.

I read what you wrote that she said, and it sounded to me a bit like "thou dost protest too much" and/or a little whiny, and that people might not receive her words the way she intended.

[Jungatheart]

wow. If that's not proof that you made the right decision in leaving and in reporting her, I don't know what is. Don't read the blog - sound like she wants you to read it just for retaliation. It's not worth it. And obviously she is wrong - b/c you won.

[ECHOES]

Originally Posted by silenthill

Thank you every one for letting me come here, and listening to me, You all ROCK!! Some one that knows xT wrote me a email telling me about xTs blog, i really don't what to know about what she is doing, i'm trying really hard to move on,and not even think about her,and what she did to me,even though that is hard when my husband gets the bill every month, any way i don't think any thing she does in her life will work out for her,i'm a true believer in Karma,and as far as talking about me,well if she doesn't use my name,then i say go for it,if this makes her feel good,but i also know that most ppl that what to know the truth can look her up on doh. So what do you guys think? I think i'm getting a little stronger

You sound strong and ready to have her out of your life for good!
You really sound terrific!

You know what they say: The best revenge is a life well lived

[silenthill]

Originally Posted by LolaCabanna

Whats the blog....Ill post a few questions surrounding her previous career..LOL

LOL It would be nice to see some ppl stand up,and say what they feel, Thanks for this LolaCabanna

[silenthill]

Originally Posted by Syra

It sounds like you are working really hard on yourself, and I want you to know that I see that. It looks to me like you are getting stronger too.

I read what you wrote that she said, and it sounded to me a bit like "thou dost protest too much" and/or a little whiny, and that people might not receive her words the way she intended.

Thank you Syra and by the way i had to look up what "thou dost protest too much" meant now i know

[silenthill]

Originally Posted by Jungatheart

wow. If that's not proof that you made the right decision in leaving and in reporting her, I don't know what is. Don't read the blog - sound like she wants you to read it just for retaliation. It's not worth it. And obviously she is wrong - b/c you won.

Jungatheart i'm not going to read it any more, your right its not worth it, and i told the person that sent it to me not to send me any thing about xT again,and i really need to heal, I did win, i stopped a bad T

[silenthill]

Originally Posted by ECHOES

You sound strong and ready to have her out of your life for good!
You really sound terrific!

You know what they say: The best revenge is a life well lived

Good to see you ECHOES I'm so ready for her to be out of my life, you know she took away some thing that every T tries to teach their clients,and that is Trust, she took that away from me,she can be a T again,but i will never get Trust back its gone for ever,i'm picking the pieces up the best i can on my own, I can do this

[AmazingGrace7]

Originally Posted by silenthill

Good to see you ECHOES I'm so ready for her to be out of my life, you know she took away some thing that every T tries to teach their clients,and that is Trust, she took that away from me,she can be a T again,but i will never get Trust back its gone for ever,i'm picking the pieces up the best i can on my own, I can do this

Your T didn't take away your trust. Your T took away your ability to trust others. You still have your ability to trust yourself and your own instincts. That is something no one (including your former T) can ever take away from you. You CAN do this!