all are welcome!

The couch moves fast most of the time. If your post gets missed, don't take it personally. Just repost or give a holler. (cool whip will sometimes work)

no contacting T under any for of mind altering substance via e-mail, text,phone or letter .(just a suggestion .it never ends well)

oh and please be kind to one another we have all had enough pain

Apologies to LC I just cut and pasted your intro as having issues with my brain.

Just realised "tricks" may have a different meaning over there in the US.

When we say "Hows tricks" it means " hows it going? what have you been doing?"

Where did RTS post go? Now i look like a lonely insane loser. Oh thats right! i am a lonely insane loser.

Sorry BiP... I'm just feeling a little reserved today... maybe you need to call out "Cool Whip"

"cool whip!"

[healed84]

Hi, I am hanging out.. Just not very chatty either.. I did get really slow around here!

Healed, how did your first session back go? I hate session after a break... it always seem like I put too much pressure on myself and expected too much of T.

[EllieBear]

I'm here too. Just started visiting the couch yesterday though so I'm doing more watching than talking Thanks for the explanation of the title...I was wondering what that meant

[healed84]

RTS- it went ok. I was more anxious than usual and T could tell. It was a shorter than normal sessions (we have been closer to 60mins as of late) and we did about a half an hour. I think it was a good overall. He brought up the fact that he had been cancelling on me a lot and apologized, I thought that was nice.

I admitted to him that I trust him.. Eek! He was trying to get me to think more rationally about MC and had me think back on our relationship and how I came to be comfortable with him and able to open up to him.

[Squirrel1983]

Checking in on the couch. Work went well. 3 of the kids went home early, so we only had 3 by the end of the day. It was a quiet afternoon.

Now I am waiting for the dishwasher to stop running, so I can put the clean dishes away. That's my cleaning chore(s) for the day...run the dishwasher and put dishes away.

[granite1]

6days and i am going to see the mother

Healed, why was the session only 1/2 hr? were you not scheduled for a full session?

Granite, is it your choice to go to see the mother or is it more of an obligation?

[healed84]

Well, a full session is usually anywhere between 40-60mins.. Sometimes, we don't go the full 40mins.. He ended kind of abruplty, I thought. However, I don't really care sometimes I am done at half an hour!

yeah I understand the being done thing.

[healed84]

I get that RTS.. ((hugs))

[granite1]

Originally Posted by Readytostop

Granite, is it your choice to go to see the mother or is it more of an obligation?

kind of both

[WikidPissah]

(((granite))) call the mother and tell her your sick friend just moved and needs your help asap so you can't make it. Then come stay with me for a week. And bring your carpenter hubby. lol. I can maybe take all the boxes out of the guest room. Maybe. My oldest is coming on monday with the grands, maybe I'll just lay an egg crate on top of the boxes and top it off with a sheet? I know I had sheets here somewhere.

[granite1]

Originally Posted by WikidPissah

(((granite))) call the mother and tell her your sick friend just moved and needs your help asap so you can't make it. Then come stay with me for a week. And bring your carpenter hubby. lol. I can maybe take all the boxes out of the guest room. Maybe. My oldest is coming on monday with the grands, maybe I'll just lay an egg crate on top of the boxes and top it off with a sheet? I know I had sheets here somewhere.

lol thanks wiki i needed to laugh. love you bunches you know i would be there in a heart beat and i moght even help but egg cartons .ill bring my own bed thanks .BTW remember i love the floor

Hola couches..... Wiki, glad to see you survives the move!

Wow.... Echo echo echo

Echo back.

[healed84]

Hi!!!!!!!!

We are having the beginnings of a thunderstorm... personally I love them and would turn off all the lights and open the windows and watch and listen to it...but my 10 year old said its not safe. handed me a flashlight and closed all the windows...