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You are right, she isn't trained in ED's at all. I feel really bad that I've pushed her into this position. I've known her for so long now. She used to have confidence in me - not so much anymore. She just seems angry at me nowdays for acting stupid when I'm 'so intellegent' (her words) You are right, perhaps I should find someone else that deals with ED and see her about other issues. It means a lot to me you have written such a wonderful reply -- thank you, ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Also, we cannot conceive naturally due to husbands very low sperm count. I need to have ICSI IVF to ever get pregnant. It's too much for me to deal with.
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I know you would do everything to love and protect your child, but until we learn to love and protect ourselves in a healthy way, you will be a ghost going through the motions of motherhood with this disorder robbing you and your kids of the full experience. Hugs. |
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Please don't consider a child (even one who is in utero) as a vehicle for meeting your own needs.
Children should be born as individuals to be nurtured by their parents, not as objects to be used. I am not trying to speak for anyone else on this board, but I think that many of us are here because our parents weren't able to put our needs first, above their own self-gratification or self-aggrandizement or any number of other needs focused on themselves. No one has to be a perfect person in order to get pregnant or become a parent, we're all working on our stuff during parenting and parents fail at times even with the best intentions. But I do think that you need to consider more deeply your reasons for wanting to be pregnant and how much you have inside you, physically and mentally, to give to a child. It sounds to me like you are already at your limit of how much you can deal with, and putting yourself first right now and not getting pregnant is the best thing you could do for the future child(ren) you will have. |
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your therapist maybe asking what she can do to help you. it's a really bad way to ask. I forget whether you on medication to help your simptoms to deal with what is going on. maybe you can increase how often you go to therapy?
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