Couch 53 Bringing it All Back Home

I would hate it if my T took notes.. I like it when he is looking at me while we are talking. Not to mention I would be too consumed with what he was writing, to really be focused on what I was saying!

I very rarely look at my T when I am talking, it makes me feel vulnerable, like he can see into my soul. He takes notes after I've finished what I'm saying, so maybe while I'm looking away he IS writing I just don't see it.

Can I tell your dad for you? Pplease? Please? Can I? Because it would be unchristian of you to go nyah nyah nyah nyah nyah, but I could do it for you

Uh critterlady you got that HALF right!!

(((∞ Granite ∞)))

What did the stupid mother do?

Squirrel...that's awesome. You deserve it.

I know my romantic nature can be a bit overwhelming to others at times. You all just let me know if you need valentine's day ideas.
That is in October, right?

I just had a moment of agressive defensive driving

there is a place near my house where all these ducks families live and as I was driving up the road they were crossing the street....so I started to drive very slowly to let them cross and this big SUV comes flying up behind me... I moved into the center of the road and then he started to try to pass me on the right so I moved over there... he was so frustrated and was screaming out the window...let me by... but I continuted to drive like 5 miles and hour blocking the road until the duckies all made it across the road...

but I couldn't help myself I had to give him the finger out the window while he was trying to pass.

I remember I came home one night from work early on in our relationship and ex-h had candles and flowers on the table, romantic music playing and had cooked dinner. I walked in and said "What the h*ll is this?" I felt so threatened by the whole thing. I know what it's like to be a romantic.

RTS: are texting while driving Are you OK? remember to breathe and other drivers are idiots.

Sorry granite about the mother.

BiP... you'll have to go back to the other page and read the rest... I think the other driver thinks I'm the idiot.

I find it to be too big of a fuss for too little return. Plus I am often just baffled by it. For example =what am I supposed to do with flowers? Why would I want them in the house near me? It just makes no sense.

Texting while driving sets me off - I have been hit on my bicycle and clobbered on my motorcycle by car drivers (cagers as we call them) distracted one way or the other by their cell phones.

RTS: Pat yourself on the back for saving the ducks from the idiot behind. I don't know the law over there but it perfectly acceptable to slow down for wildlife here. Just not no sudden braking or swerving

I have the same thing. But its my mothers fault as she believed flowers belonged outside on the plants and to cut them was needlessly hurting a living thing.

i dont get this but whatever the moher is being torcherous to me right now .i hate her.but it is ok . god i hate life i would rather be dead then deal with her right now

I don't know what the rule is here but my rule is that you do everything possible not to hit wildlife... my criteria is humans first, wildlife, and then car...

Granite - you are an adult. You can choose not to deal with the mother.
(I am not being mean about this - I think it bears reminding. I remind myself I am an adult and can choose differently all the time. Screw my courage to the sticking place and all)

Granite... do you have to deal with your mother today? Can you tell yourself that the mother is being the mother like she always is and you are not going to be drug into her drama? (I can't yet so I rarely ever see my mother or talk to her for that matter)

AH. I follow my father - why spend money on bringing flowers in -when they grow outside for free. And inside they make you sneeze.

I absolutely love flowers...sometimes I buy them for myself for my desk at work...it brings a little bit of nature indoors and it brightens up my cubicle.

I'm sorry granite.

I am confused about the dancing part. Sorry you are having a rough time.

its all good realy i am fine

i hate flowers .they die .my son spent bunches of money sending me flowers i finely told him to think about incredable edibles.

If one does enjoy them, then I can see having them.

It was my post.