Things you would like to do to your T

Ex-T: I would like to confront him and tell him how he affected me and my life. I would like to demand an answer as to why and ask for an apology.

Current T: I want a hug. I also want to just sit next to him and lay my head on his shoulder. I would like to stay in his therapy room with him for like....forever lol I want him to tell me he enjoys my company and I can stay with him as long as I like - and for him to be genuine about it so that he really means it and truly wants me around. Of course none of this would ever happen, but I suppose feelings are not wrong they are just feelings, eh?

Sometimes, I want to tell her to shut up.

Go for a walk in a beautiful forest and him hold my hand.

Yell, scream, cry in his arms.

Throw things at her. Shake her. Make love to her. Explore her body. Move in with her. Smack her a few times. Walk down the street and hold hands. Pick her up and carry her off into the sunset. Braid her hair. Throw away some of her strange clothes. Show her how to clean her office.

xT - take a run at him and tackle him to the ground as we do in American football. Then I would love to be able to tell him off, making my points perfectly. And then just get up, and walk calmly away.

Be careful what you wish for....I think you might find its not as much fun as you imagine, take it from me.

I'm feeling sleepy and I misread this at first as can-can. I had this wacky vision of my T leading all the other PCers' Ts in a can-can dance. It made me laugh, so thanks for inadvertently inspiring that.

Honestly...when she looks sad or tired i want to take care of her. Ask HER how she's feeling and what's going on and reassure her that things will get better and give her a hug.

XT...

I would like to text him.

I would like to put my t on a damn airplane and bring her home. Two years away is too damn long. I just want her home.

For ex- t, i would like to make her listen to me so i can tell her how badly she traumatized me years ago when she dumped me out of nowhere with no warning, no closure, no nothing. I would like her to know what her being unethical did to me and how i had to work my butt off for five years to get over what she did.

I'd like to give her a neck and shoulder massage. I used to do that for a living, and I've noticed she has discomfort there. I would just like to give something back to her by doing something that I'm good at, that would be healing for her.

At this very moment I would like to say to her....I loved the dialogue that we shared last night,the connection....please tell me that it was real, not just you earning your paycheck.

When I said, I wanted to go to the Garden, I didn't mean for it to be punishing!!! GRRRRRRRR...... bruins :'(

Oooh, my t will be the cute little french guy in the striped sailor shirt and the beret and the tight little black jeans.

The sad part about is the therapist would probably understand the can-can better than what I meant by Western Canon.

Still kind of want to shake exT. and to ask her wtf happened. How it was that she just decided she was done.

I'd like to make currentT be on time. But at least she usually lets me know when she's running late.

How did your session go ?

Yeah, well ... It's like I told this one guy in group who was ranting and raving about what a @#$%! his therapist was ...

Yeah, buddy, I get that ... I used to think my therapist was a @#$%! too ... Then one day it dawned on me that it wasn't her that was acting like a @#$%!, it was me!

Funny thing is, once I owned up to that, my process started moving along a lot more productively than it had been before.

Way to go Pfrog )

Ex t, I would like to punch her in the face but afterwards kiss her- does this make me bad? Lol

I take it back!
My T always makes me like her again We just had a great session, and cleared the air. We even had a hug.

For my xT I would like to tell her how much she hurt me, then shake her and tell her to grow up.

Is it just me, or do others find it odd that people want to "smack" or "hit" their t's?

nope, i think it's just a visual representation of their frustration not something they's actually do.

i have this thing where i always see my ex-t slapping me in the face. not actually me hitting her first.. just thought about that with this post . thought it was interesting the first thing that popped in my mind.

actually this post helped me a little.. i did not know so many people would have these things pop in there minds and actually post them lol...