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#1
Jun 18, 2013, 09:11 AM
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 Ha, well I am in a strange mood today so T1 in yer face.; I would like to punch her face and then tell her exactly what she did that wasn't very nice or helpful to me.What would you like to do to your t? |
 1stepatatime, Mapleton
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#2
Jun 18, 2013, 09:13 AM
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I've only ever done a polite handshake. Once. |
| Anonymous58205
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#3
Jun 18, 2013, 09:21 AM
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Sit next to her and hold her hand like I used to do.
Sometimes I want to throw things at her, but she tells me not to, and I listen. But I really want to throw that pillow or that bear right at her.  But of course I don't want to HURT her. 
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| Anonymous58205, Mapleton
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 CantExplain, crazycanbegood
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#4
Jun 18, 2013, 09:33 AM
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Hey Mona, i am with you, a good hard punch would do the trick with my T. I would LOVE to do that to her, the witch
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Jun 18, 2013, 09:33 AM
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Ex T- i'd like to set up a dartboard using a picture of her face. And sometimes i just want to be repatriated with her and get a hug.
New T- I'd love to shout in her face " I HATE YOUR STUPID BOUNDARIES!!!" 
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| crazycanbegood
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#6
Jun 18, 2013, 09:42 AM
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Is this supposed to be G-rated??
 Hahaha, just kidding. Sometimes I want to sidle up next to her and give her a big squeeze  And sometimes I want to stick a pillow on her lap, lie down and go to sleep  I did throw something at her once, but it was just a koosh ball so it didn't hurt... |
| mandazzle, Mapleton, Melody_Bells, Moodswing
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#7
Jun 18, 2013, 09:54 AM
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If boundaries were no issue, a reciprocated kiss like we both meant it. That would lead to no good whatsoever, however. |
| Melody_Bells
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#8
Jun 18, 2013, 10:28 AM
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I would like to put my head in her lap while she stroked my hair and reassured me over and over again that I am a good person
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| 1stepatatime, growlycat, marcel83, Melody_Bells, rainbow8, Sometimes psychotic
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| BonnieJean, Moodswing
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#9
Jun 18, 2013, 10:32 AM
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I would want to give T a make-over. I like to think I can do wonders with a round brush, an eye pencil, and an A-line skirt
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| Asiablue, crazycanbegood
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Jun 18, 2013, 10:37 AM
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Jun 18, 2013, 01:40 PM
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I have kind of a strange desire to cuddle up under my T's arm - the way my cat curls up with my husband, bizarrely enough.
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| BonnieJean
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Jun 18, 2013, 02:10 PM
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Oh my! The things that popped into my head!
Brought a smile to my face, and then a hot flash. Due to the strong transference going on, the first thing is physical seduction. He is just so buttoned up all the time, I'd like to unbutton some of those so I could see some skin, and then .... oh well, to keep this G-rated, I'll stop there. But at other times, I've had really strong urges to: Throw things at him. Wrestle and fight with him. Shove him out the window. Fall into his arms and just sob. But always always always ... I JUST WANT A HUG!!!!
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Jun 18, 2013, 02:24 PM
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I would like to go get a drink with T.
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Jun 18, 2013, 02:51 PM
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I would like to spend more time with her. She could cuddle me. At the moment that's everything I need to live. The worst I have to terminate therapy in the end of July.
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Jun 18, 2013, 03:07 PM
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this is very interesting to read everyones response.
my ex t I would like to not punch her but smack her in her face really hard to the point where she would smack me back allow her to push her feelings off onto me like she always did.. but the smack would feel good when she smacks me knowing she feels the same as me.. haha , that would definatley put both of us in our place, me feelings bad for hitting her then her feeling bad or hitting her lol.. who knows what would happen after that one . maybe one day I will find out, maybe one day I wont... but good thing you brought this up so I could get it out there in open. my new t...I have to say there is not much I would think I would like to do to her. besides, maybe giving her makeover..  give her some style.
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The mind when it has an old experience will add that data into its current experience, and it keeps coming up with wrong answers.
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Jun 18, 2013, 03:12 PM
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I mean she can feel bad for hitting me* she proablly would also feel sorry for herself getting smacked knowing her also.
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The mind when it has an old experience will add that data into its current experience, and it keeps coming up with wrong answers.
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Jun 18, 2013, 04:58 PM
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Also, I want to go on a road trip with my T. I want him to drive us along in a car and talk to me the whole way. I don't care about the trip, just the car journey.
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| BonnieJean, photostotake
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#18
Jun 18, 2013, 06:48 PM
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I would want to sit closer to my T, she has never offered to hug or hold my hand. I hate how separated I feel physically from her sometimes.
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| Anonymous43209, Anonymous58205
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Jun 18, 2013, 06:59 PM
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I would love to buy T a hamburger and fries and a big milkshake because she needs fattening up. Hugging her is like hugging a bone.
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#20
Jun 18, 2013, 07:07 PM
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Force her to learn the Western Canon.
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Jun 18, 2013, 08:04 PM
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Go to the Garden and watch the hockey game!!!
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| growlycat
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Jun 18, 2013, 08:30 PM
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I'd love to finally have the breakthrough my t has been waiting for me to have and to be comforted by a hug from him when it does happen.
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| Thimble, tinyrabbit
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Jun 18, 2013, 08:47 PM
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xT: Tell him I miss him. Tell him how much I regret what happened and how sad it all makes me. Tell him that I am making progress and that I hope he is doing well.
T: be nonintrusive. Be a perfect patient.
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Jun 18, 2013, 08:54 PM
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Hug him, go for a drink, hang out in the park and enjoy his company outside the office.
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Jun 18, 2013, 09:26 PM
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I don't think there is anything I want to do *to* my T, but there are many things I would like to do *with* my T, like go for coffee or lunch or just hang out. Personal confession time  : I have always thought it would be really cool to be in a book club with my T. We both love to read, and I think talking about books with her (and other people) would be super fun.
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| murray
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