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Old Sep 09, 2013, 08:29 PM
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YOU'RE FIRED!

I actually did that once but I hired her back.

Or
You took my soul and it wasn't yours and I want it back.
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Old Sep 09, 2013, 09:38 PM
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For one T - Why did you promise you wouldn't die?
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Old Sep 09, 2013, 09:43 PM
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For one T - Why did you promise you wouldn't die?
Seems like a particularly unhelpful thing to promise.
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Old Sep 09, 2013, 09:44 PM
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Why can't you sack up and admit that you screwed up?

Also I miss you.

And **** you.
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Old Sep 09, 2013, 10:18 PM
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Seems like a particularly unhelpful thing to promise.
when she died a few days later -- very unhelpful!

for that same T - why did you tell me you were the only one who could understand?
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Old Sep 09, 2013, 10:47 PM
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Former T-

You left me in the worst possible condition. My life was in danger.

Thankfully, a skilled and loving T picked up the pieces of your horrid mistakes.
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Old Sep 09, 2013, 11:30 PM
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Why? Why? and Why?
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Old Sep 09, 2013, 11:31 PM
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Former T - are you clueless? Was I the first person who ever had a panic attack in your office in all the time you've been practicing? Why on earth would you trigger someone that you know has an abuse history and is being stalked by their abuser? Is that why I never saw another patient in your waiting room, because you scare them all away? Thanks for traumatizing me so much I couldn't leave the house for three days and am petrified to see another therapist again. i've run into bad therapists over the last 12 years but you are by far the worst
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Old Sep 09, 2013, 11:33 PM
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The one I only saw for a few months I would want to say "seriously, you thought telling me I couldn't unilaterally quit was going to work?"
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Old Sep 09, 2013, 11:57 PM
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Well, I could go on for pages and pages about what I would like him to know (and I've left him many emails to this end) but to sum up, ditto LifeLike.
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 12:20 AM
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I think you should stick with acupuncture.
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 01:06 AM
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I wish I never met you. You were the first person I ever trusted with my story and you didn't honour that.

You abandoned me when you knew that abandonment is my issue. Look up the word, "trauma," you f'n idiot. Who the heII gave you a PHD in marriage and family therapy? How areyou a supervisor?

Why didn't you tell me I was your only client in the last three f'n years? Why didn't you refer me out?

Why did you think it was ok to give me so many intimate details about your wife, kids amd marriage? I suspect you violated my confidentiality and I wish I could have your head.

Go away. Shut down your practice. You are useless.
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 01:29 AM
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 02:27 AM
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1st T- (13-14)
- I didn't end up dead in a ditch
- I'm not Single on welfare with 7 kids from different unknown fathers.
- I did need medication I wasn't 'just a brat',
- I didn't have csa., just because I was daddy's girl
- I dislike my mom because she was a *****, not because she let my dad be around me.
- You should not break confidentiality, I shouldn't have known which of my friend's you were seeing and why
- If you would have paid a little attention maybe you would have noticed I had an ED and possibly refrained from telling the stress I cause you makes you eat more
- I use to purge as soon as I left and yes it was because of you.
- I really needed your help
- you made me lose complete faith in the mental heath system
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T2 (14-16)
There was so much I needed your help with but I didn't understand social worker didn't mean CPS. I should have been brave. I wish I had you as T1.

T3 (16)
Don't ever trust a 16 yr old to reach out for help. At least touch base with them and investigate the family you leave them with. Don't shut their case 2 weeks after it's open to leave them in another abusive situation.

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T4 (17)
I'm sorry I stormed out when you tried to bring up me ED and that I never came back. Thank-you for trying to find me help when I called you crying and later dealing with the college when I got drunk because of you I did not get kicked out. Thank-you for taking my call later that day when I called you still a bit drunk to tell you I was getting married to a guy I met less than 2 weeks before that. You did all this with out me still being your patient or getting paid By the way I'm still mostly happly married to him 12 years. later.

T5 (17)- I wish we stayed in touch
T6 (18)- You had no chance

I didn't realize I went through so many T's in 6 years
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 04:23 AM
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Thank you. I miss you. I think of you often and it makes me happy.
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 04:29 AM
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F*** you beeyatch! Oh yeah I now can release my anger thanks to you.
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 07:03 AM
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 07:12 AM
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Son of a **** you ruined the past 3 years of my life - Ex t

To my next t - Hope I can trust you
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 01:36 PM
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I hope you drink from the cup of your own indifference.
I feel like a monster inside.
You created that.
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 02:14 PM
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You should have been the adult in the relationship.
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 02:15 PM
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F*** you beeyatch! Oh yeah I now can release my anger thanks to you.
Well, you certainly Broke Bad !
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 02:16 PM
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you ruined my life...I want my old life back!
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 04:15 PM
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You were more crazy than me, but you still should have known better.

Oh, and I am SO over you!
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 04:23 PM
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Old Sep 10, 2013, 05:58 PM
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In a parallel universe...I'm your therapist. I can't help you in that universe any more that you were willing to help me in this one.
What you did to me here was paralleled there.
Act here and I act there.
Think about that.
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