T tomorrow...

So I have T tomorrow...first thing in the morning. I have been dealing with a lot of anger that has been pent up inside for quite some time and I am starting to realize my anger is mostly from relationships seeming fake. For instance: I have a cousin whom I have grown very close to in the last, oh I would say 10 years. I have trusted him with everything and have come to value his being in my life. I do not try to contact him very often but I either get a short snarky resonse from his fairly new wife or completely ignored until I sarcastically send some kind of acknowledgement of an unreceived response a week or two later.. While my response could be called immature and maybe it is...but when I send a email asking your advice on something fairly important(or I wouldn't ask) I think it complehely rude to ignore me or leave your wife who doesn't really know me to respond in a short and snarky way. Like really???? Is that necessry??? You mean to tell me in one week he cant find 5 minutes to respond to an email. Then for his wife to blatantly lie to me telling me they dont really talk or get together with anyone...now that's bulls**t because she is on FB all the time talking to her friends and family. But I try to have a relationship with my cousin and I get nothing but nastiness from her. And he supports her doing this??? **** him! He better not come near me at family get togethers and try to make cool with me. I am so over it. Relationships are bulls**t! I am so done!

I'm sorry you had to go through this.

Maybe you could pull him aside over the holidays and simply talk to him and explain how you're feeling.

That is a good idea however I don't think he intends to be around our side of the family much if at all to have a chance to talk to him. He has kind of used being married as an excuse to have nothing to do with extended family.

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