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Seeing your T naked?
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#2
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Sometimes
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#3
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I did once, and it freaked me out.
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ummm nope
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I use to want to be a butcher. I read somewhere that wanting to touch raw meat is a desire for closeness.
I think, wondering what T looks like in the nude, her imperfect raw body, is something similar. |
#6
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While I'm there in the room with him? No.
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#7
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Yes I do all the time
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I agree, I think this is what it was for me. Nothing sexual. It's kind of symbolic of wanting some reciprocity from the relationship. As clients, we bare flawed and imperfect selves all the time. Perhaps this is the desire to receive the same back.
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Excellent thought purple mystery!!!
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#10
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Interesting question. Now that you mention it, wearing the same few outfits all the time starts to become like a birthday suit, very natural-seeming.
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never
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#12
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Jesus, no.
I often wonder why type of therapy people are engaging in! I know erotic transference creeps up in therapy sometimes but this stuff is so shocking to me. Maybe something is wrong with me. ![]() |
#13
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Absolutely not
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Healthy mind in healthy body
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#16
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Not until you asked
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#17
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....and more.
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#18
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No, never. My ex t used to tell me about how she would go swimming in the mornings (we would talk swimming because I'm a competitive swimmer). I got to visualize her in a swim suit and that was enough for me. ha!
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#19
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Unfortunately yes, gets in the way sometimes.
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No.....ikk.
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No, but once I had a kind of primal urge to touch his skin. It was bizarre, almost like a craving. I wanted to rub my arms against his forearms - it was skin to skin contact I just had to have. I can't believe how strong it was and how little sense it made. Only lasted a day or two, but it was WEIRD.
Obviously, nothing ever happened, and no, I never told him about it!
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No! And I don't want to. I don't/can't go there. She's really pretty and I'm a lesbian and while I do have some transference feelings, I can never see people in a sexual way. I can be attracted to them, but I can't 'go there' with the whole sexual desire stuff.
Some people mentioned it not being sexual, but my very devout Catholic mother has instilled in me certain values.. and nudity seems like a sexual thing 99% of the time for me. Even if it doesn't, it still represents a raw intimacy which frightens me. |
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Nudity isn't sexual. Until we put the sexual side into it.
So on that thinking. The problem resides already in your and other religious peoples minds. For me I want to see every cervix, lump, flab. I guess that's why I enjoy psychoanalyst so much. I have a very open and willing mind unburdened by religion. |
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#24
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no never. until I read this post now it's stuck in my head! lol
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No, never. I don't imagine how ppl look naked.
However, I don't think it's weird either way. Some ppl do, some don't. |
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