Well she is not exactly new as I seen her briefly last year.
I really liked her and felt she was really attuned and different. For whatever reasons it didn't work out and I ended up seeing ex t.
So new t was really attuned, she asked me if I was there because I came in all flustered and nervous. She asked if I needed a moment to arrive, I said I was fine.
So we began and I found I couldn't talk, I kept stumbling and then started to laugh. This has never happened to me before and I was really embarrassed, I just kept giggling. T started to laugh too and said it was contagious.
I don't think I will have any worry with transference as she is only 10 years older than me. She wears really cool clothes, rainbow jumpers and doc martins.
She has very kind eyes and after the giggles I really could talk to her and she listened I mean really listened. I told her I feel different and that there is something wrong with me, she assured me there wasn't. She said I feel different because I am different. She said maybe I just haven't met anyone who understands me yet. She said that it is understandible that I don't feel understood because people dismiss me all the time and I have been told from a child that I am weird and that there was something wrong with me. She said often gay people feel like that because they don't fit in with the norm in society but if I was surrounded by loving people who accepted me for what I am then I would start to feel alright.
I told her stuff that had happened in work and she showed great empathy and challenged me a few times about my thoughts- I was glad she did this because I was able to see what happened in a new light and see that it had to happen the way it did and it was nothing personal.
She really helped and I like that she is so honest, a few times she cursed when she got mad and apologised but I said it didn't matter, I liked she was honest and I liked that she said to email her if I needed to next week as she will be away for a few weeks now.

[Asiablue]

Positive new beginnings! How you feeling about it all now?

[blur]

Glad to hear you had such a good session. Was this the T you saw before that you liked from school? She sounded good although I think you had some trouble scheduling with her. Hopefully that can be easily rectified if it were to happen again.

[Rzay4]

She sounds awesome. Glad it worked out.

Sounds like its off to a good start!

Originally Posted by Asiablue

Positive new beginnings! How you feeling about it all now?

Have a really good feeling but I won't lie I miss t. Old t. I really miss her a lot.

Originally Posted by blur

Glad to hear you had such a good session. Was this the T you saw before that you liked from school? She sounded good although I think you had some trouble scheduling with her. Hopefully that can be easily rectified if it were to happen again.

Yes this is the one I saw before blur for a few sessions. I really liked her then too. She is nothing to do with school, we had a rupture before about scheduling and her not showing up for appt. hopefully that won't happen again. I do think she will be good for me be aide she is not that much older and I feel able to talk to her openly about gay stuff that old t did not understand.

She sounds great mona

Transference doesn't depend on age difference.

[QUOTE=_Mouse;3362972]Transference doesn't depend on age difference.[/
It's not as simple for some people, also it depends on erotic transference or just plain transference.
I tend to have erotic transference towards older women so age is important to me.