[sweepy62]

Almost 2 yrs ago I met t1 we got along great, 3 months before she suddenly told me she accepted a job somwhere else, with only two weeks notice, while working on csa. She left. That was my first t ever, I was devastated. She reffered me to t2 which I started seeing 3 weeks later.

its been 1 year and 4 months and she is much better than t1 a trauma specilist. I trust her opened up, getting into the trauma work.

with much sadness and watery eyes, she told me she accepted a job elsewhere and is leaving in 5 weeks, but that she already has someone for me and her and I and the new t will have 2 sessions together.

I completly shut down, tears came down, first time ever in therapy, I felt all emotions. She wants to process my feelings of whats left of our time together, im heartbroken, I dont think I can hold back tears now in front of her.

she also wanted to set up a safety plan which I turned down.
I feel horrible this is the second time.

[IndestructibleGirl]

I'm so sorry to hear this. It must be so hard. I don't know what to say to help, but I'm thinking of you.

[elaygee]

Can you follow that T to where she is going?
That's SO HARD. I've been there multiple times as well and it hurts so badly. Thankfully my one T let me follow her else where and I've stayed with her so far for 5 yrs.

[brillskep]

I'm so sorry you're going through this, and a second time too. At least this time she is willing to work through it with you and make sure you're okay and that there will be someone there to support you.

[sweepy62]

Originally Posted by elaygee

Can you follow that T to where she is going?
That's SO HARD. I've been there multiple times as well and it hurts so badly. Thankfully my one T let me follow her else where and I've stayed with her so far for 5 yrs.

Unfortunately its not allowed, so I cant follow her

[granite1]

im sorry sweat pea .you must be so hurt

I'm so sorry sweepy, I would be very hurt by this too

[sweepy62]

Originally Posted by granite1

im sorry sweat pea .you must be so hurt

Yes granite you remember when the same thing happened to me a year and a half ago. Im hurting. I have decided to cut all my 3 friends out of my life I dont want or need anybody irl.

[Rzay4]

Wow that's really hard. I'm sorry you have to go through this again.

[Jordy]

I'm so sorry to hear this. I feel for you as when I was a teen my school counselor went to another school, I don't know what I would have done if I hadn't been able to see her when needed at her new school.

I hope you can work through this and like the new T...

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[Leah123]

I'm so sorry. Can you ask her to write you a long letter with all the things you want and need to hear from her so that you have something to keep?

I hope you'll keep posting on the forum at least, too, even if you feel like cutting others out, and try to be extra kind and gentle with yourself.

[Wren_]

((((((sweepy)))))))) seems like those friends might be good to have around right now I hope you can find a way to let them be there for you

so sorry about your T .... that sounds so very hard

[Fuzzybear]

(((((((( sweepy ))))))))

[sweepy62]

Originally Posted by Jordy

I'm so sorry to hear this. I feel for you as when I was a teen my school counselor went to another school, I don't know what I would have done if I hadn't been able to see her when needed at her new school.

I hope you can work through this and like the new T...

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I dont know that I can do this a 3rd time im home trying to process this, it just does not make sense to me, nothing does right now. I see her again on wed but, for what?

[Ambra]

I'm really sorry Sweepy...
I wish I had something really helpful to tell you. I wrote a lot about my fear of abandonment and early termination after last session and it sort of helped me to untangle the mess that was/is going on in my mind. I can't wait to bring it in next time. I know this is different, but maybe it can help you process it a little bit?
Sending you hugs.

[sweepy62]

Originally Posted by Leah123

I'm so sorry. Can you ask her to write you a long letter with all the things you want and need to hear from her so that you have something to keep?

I hope you'll keep posting on the forum at least, too, even if you feel like cutting others out, and try to be extra kind and gentle with yourself.

Thanks leah, that really sounds like a good idea, im just still not understanding this so many emotions right now.

so very very very sorry to hear this many safe comforting coming to you

[Karrebear]

This is devastating why is it not allowed that you follow her?