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Old Apr 04, 2014, 09:50 AM
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None sexual/not erotic just wanted a different type of closeness/ friendship with her. I miss her and this song makes me think of her. Anyone else relate?
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Old Apr 04, 2014, 09:15 PM
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I love that song. I'm sorry you're missing your T so intensely right now. Are you able to have any contact?

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I usually associate things like Night on Bald Mountain with the therapist.
But I do like REO.
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I usually associate things like Night on Bald Mountain with the therapist.
But I do like REO.

LOL...Oh, you.

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Old Apr 04, 2014, 10:17 PM
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I have emailed her the last few months expressing I miss her and met up with her one time when she suggested I think it was to get a better assessment of my mental state as it is hard to really know from emails. It helped a great deal and then I started getting really emotional. She suggested a New T to help. Since she couldn't be my T any longer.
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Old Apr 04, 2014, 10:21 PM
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I'm so sorry.

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She now works in schools with children. But I want her to be my T If not I need her to be a friend... I miss the connection I never have with regular friends. They don't really connect on this level I have with her. I crave what I experienced in therapy. The new T I have had only 2 appts with and not yet feeling anything accept to be able to explain so much of what I felt with my time with Ex T. Seems Cray Cray to me to be in therapy because of Ex T leaving. To work through it. Going to attempt EMDR to help with the strong emotions so I can better talk about missing Ex T. Not as strong as Ex T says I am. I fall to pieces just looking at photo's I have of her etc. I guess it is considered my first real relationship break up. Even though I am divorced. Oh well... that is what I am working through.
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I am there with you Sunflower. I've listened to that song as well and thought of my T. I've lost the battle in fighting the feeling.
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