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Old Jan 11, 2015, 06:10 AM
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I haven't told mine how obsessed about her I was in the beginning of my transference. It has calmed down a ton - I think I just wanted to be close to her and know everything about her.
Me too, all of this. Now it's better, I don't know what could be achieved by telling her. She probably knows anyway but not that I looked her up on the births register, at a cost of £5,just to see how old she is

I think she knows most other stuff now. I wish I HADN'T told her about a recent sexual relationship with a female friend, she brings it in to everything. Let it go, let it go.....
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Old Jan 11, 2015, 08:41 AM
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That seems very insightful and useful. Thank you for sharing your process with us.
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Old Jan 11, 2015, 07:47 PM
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That abuse at home that was happening when I was little is still happening...
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Old Jan 11, 2015, 07:56 PM
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I avoid talking about my past in school or camp, in a social setting as a kid. I'm really ashamed to talk about it. I was sooo awkward and I can't re-live it.
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Old Jan 12, 2015, 04:36 PM
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Oh yeah, I haven't mentioned the short obsession with bdsm porn. Over it now though, so who needs to know, right?
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Old Jan 12, 2015, 05:02 PM
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So, so so many things I can't bear to think of. let alone talk about. All the people involved are dead now so why should I be worried about these things. SHHHHH! Secrets!!
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Old Jan 12, 2015, 07:44 PM
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I am soooo never bringing up any of my fantasies with previous T Some of 'em make Red's look tame

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