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Old Jan 31, 2015, 12:02 PM
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That would be hilarious. We in the past have pictured stopdog with a top hat and a monocle and an ascot, but i could definitely see grumpy cat saying this!

Haha... I could see that also.

Grumpy cat came to mind when I read that sentence. You know the one with NO on top and a sentence on the bottom? lol. Like that.
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 01:20 PM
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Speaking of Elephants in the room:

I am so sorry if I hurt anyone by leaving. I understand that I broke trust, and I know it offended some people. I cannot promise that I will hang around as much as I did before, or that I will not disappear again. I will try my best to be supportive and non-judgmental when I am here (I know that I lacked that before). I was acting "high & mighty" and I know it. It was not good for anyone.

I am NOT apologizing for taking a break, because I needed it.
I am apologizing if it hurt someone.
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personally I'm always excited to see you when you can be here.
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 01:30 PM
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personally I'm always excited to see you when you can be here.
Me too. I have a bamboo steamer i never unwrapped after i bought it and would love to hear how you use yours.

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Old Jan 31, 2015, 04:08 PM
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im so fed up of being in hospital
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 04:48 PM
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 04:51 PM
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I've had some good news today (finally!) and I'm finding myself a little overwhelmed by it. Like my body can't handle it or something... Like I don't know what to do with the extra energy. It's an odd feeling...
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 04:58 PM
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I've had some good news today (finally!) and I'm finding myself a little overwhelmed by it. Like my body can't handle it or something... Like I don't know what to do with the extra energy. It's an odd feeling...
Awesome. That's great! I hope it continues
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 04:58 PM
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OMG I am soooo tired .I cant even open my mouth with out some sort of drama . im sick sick sick of it . todays offence was that I was showing people some zentangle stuff I did in my art journal. I had forgotten that I had some of my very private drawings like the ones I posted here in there . when I turned the page and saw one I freaked out and slamed the book closed and put it on the table . the person across from me commented that someone was looking at that when I closed it and I simply and nicely said I didn't want to share. well I guess this offended the person who was looking at it and she went to the store owner of the store I am teaching at talking about it and acting all offended to the point that the store owner questioned me about it . WHY couldn't this person come to me. why gossip and cause trouble. and I WAS NICE about it I just didn't want to share my personal stuff. I just want to be done with this life .I cant win .I open my mouth ,I try to fit in ,get along, interact and people hate me . even when I think I am being nice . I just cant ever get this horrible place. my T says get out and live ya right . screw that
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:10 PM
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If the other person was a true artist or lover of art, she would understand that art is extremely personal and isn't always shared. It is okay if your boundaries upset other people. The are still your boundaries and they do not become "wrong" just because someone gets upset. You handled it really well.
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:27 PM
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Awesome. That's great! I hope it continues
Yeah, I think I'm going to be on edge until I'm sitting in my own apartment! I'm so nervous. Better than resigned or hopeless though...
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:40 PM
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to granite and JS

Time is crawling, this last hour felt like a week. Its not that i don't have things to occupy me i just can't be bothered. I maybe depressed, but i have never felt like this. I think i usually skip this and go straight to a deeper depression.
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:41 PM
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I am awaful with time zones but SD have you tried the other chop yet?
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:42 PM
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I am still hungry thats a good sign
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:44 PM
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I haven't been doing well with my depression. Every Saturday my older son and my H go out together to eat and spend some dad + son time (the little one is just a toddler so it'll be a while before he gets to join them). Normally I think it's sweet except tonight I wanted to beg them not to go and not to leave me alone with the toddler

I think I'm going to ask him to bring me home a bottle or two of wine...
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:45 PM
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Just a question to parents of teenagers. My 14 ,nearly 15 year old daughter locks herself away in her room and only comes out to snack, she generally eats meals in her room. Is this normal behaviour. She is still quite pleasant, but can get sassy sometimes.
I dont rember anything really before i was 17
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:50 PM
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Just a question to parents of teenagers. My 14 ,nearly 15 year old daughter locks herself away in her room and only comes out to snack, she generally eats meals in her room. Is this normal behaviour. She is still quite pleasant, but can get sassy sometimes.
I dont rember anything really before i was 17
This is perfectly normal. Don't sweat it.
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:51 PM
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Just a question to parents of teenagers. My 14 ,nearly 15 year old daughter locks herself away in her room and only comes out to snack, she generally eats meals in her room. Is this normal behaviour. She is still quite pleasant, but can get sassy sometimes.
I dont rember anything really before i was 17
As long as she's doing stuff in there and not sleeping all the time I'd say she's alright. Teens like their own space.
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:51 PM
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Just a question to parents of teenagers. My 14 ,nearly 15 year old daughter locks herself away in her room and only comes out to snack, she generally eats meals in her room. Is this normal behaviour. She is still quite pleasant, but can get sassy sometimes.
I dont rember anything really before i was 17
No wonder you have mice!! (pet mice, for people who dont follow the couch!) We had to eat EVERYTHING at the dining room table. But after my dad passed, my mom started eating in front of the tv even after i told her dr phil says to eat at the table to lose weight
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:52 PM
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Just a question to parents of teenagers. My 14 ,nearly 15 year old daughter locks herself away in her room and only comes out to snack, she generally eats meals in her room. Is this normal behaviour. She is still quite pleasant, but can get sassy sometimes.
I dont rember anything really before i was 17
I only have boys but we have house rules and there is no food in bedrooms. Also we sit at table to eat dinner even if we can't all eat at same time. They do spend 24/7 online with friends if I would let them.

It took one incident of having mice and not the pet kind and ants to enforce that rule.
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:53 PM
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I never did get into that wine last night. I was too exhausted, fell asleep right after the kids. Tonight...
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:54 PM
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Just a question to parents of teenagers. My 14 ,nearly 15 year old daughter locks herself away in her room and only comes out to snack, she generally eats meals in her room. Is this normal behaviour. She is still quite pleasant, but can get sassy sometimes.
I dont rember anything really before i was 17

I did that.... I would just get a snack and head back to my room with it. I pretty much left my room to use the loo or get food. Or smoke.
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:56 PM
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I pretty much spent all my time in my room but I wasn't allowed to eat there and I wasn't permitted to have a television until I was a senior in high school. The same rule will apply in my house (except with phones/tablets/computers).

I did a lot of reading.
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:56 PM
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No wonder you have mice!! We had to eat EVERYTHING at the dining room table. But after my dad passed, my mom started eating in front of the tv
She will eat meals with the rest of the family, but if shes feel sarky i would prefer her to not as it tends to depress me. I dont know if that is good parenting.
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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:56 PM
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Yeah, I think I'm going to be on edge until I'm sitting in my own apartment! I'm so nervous. Better than resigned or hopeless though...

How long until you are in your own place now?

Nervous is good in this case

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Old Jan 31, 2015, 05:58 PM
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I eat in my bedroom all the time now...I don't even own a dining room table (or anything similar to one). I am super neat about it tho (and plates go downstairs and into the dishwasher when I am done), and I have NEVER had mice. My cats are very upset about this.
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