What do you want to hear your T say to you?

I would like to hear him say that I am the best client he's ever had & just how amazing I am with all my qualities. That I am so important to him & he will always be there for me - free of charge, of course!! And then I woke up! Lol.

I would love for my T to tell me she'll always be a part of my life in some way. We seem to have a fair bit in common. I do not use my friends for their profession (I have a close friend who is a lawyer, but I do not ask her lawyer related questions, even with what I'm going through in my life right now, and I'm also friends with my vet, but I make an appt with her just like any other client would and pay her for her services. So I would not expect T to be a T). I know I'm crazy for feeling this way, but jeez, sometimes I think about quitting just so I don't have to lose her down the road.

Oh yeah I'd like her to say, would you like to just sit and stay a few minutes longer? She's always snapping her notes shut at 44 minutes and has the door open for me to exit by 45. Damn, girl.

" Hey, after a few more sessions here you're going to totally resolve all your insecurities and be completely together, secure, and confidant.. Oh, and here's how we're going to get it done."

we have already heard it and hear it everyday ♥

I'd like my T to tell me that he hasn't changed his mind and started to dislike me. And that asking for confirmation of this every couple hours is reasonable.

I also want my medical doctor (PCP) to tell me that she was kidding when she said that I need to limit my egg consumption to 2 - 3 a week. That the best way for me to lower my cholesterol is to eat a cheese omelette at least twice a day. And chocolate mousse at least once daily.

I would like her to say that she likes me and cares about me (more than her other clients).

I'm glad you decided to terminate, because now we can be friends!

I want him to make eye contact with me at the beginning of a session and then say "I'm in love with you, let's try to make this work, but first come here..." and then approach me and wrap me up in his arms in a huge hug, and he kisses me. We start making out, and I'd put my hands in his hair and up and down his back both of us exasperated in this nearly violent with passion kiss, then he slowly moves his head down, kissing my body all over as he goes, stopping only in the best spot, my body writhing with pleasure, I reach behind me and turn the volume up on the white noise machine to high. At the end of the hour we both lay sweaty and naked on his blue carpeted floor. "You're the last session of the day for me" he'd say "do you want to take a quick walk?" And I would of course say yes. We stroll outside and the weather is gorgeous. He says "follow me" and we both hop in our cars and I follow him to a near by park, driving windows down enjoying the weather and the moment. We pull in to the park and he grabs a pack of cigarettes from his car "I only smoke on occasion" he says "want one?" and I pull a cigarette from his pack, we both walk through the empty park enjoying a smoke, as he explains to me "I've loved you since the beginning, I hope you understand, you need to find another therapist but I want us to work this out, I've never felt so strongly about someone." and I'd say "wow, just wow." We'd sit looking silently into each others eyes, in orgasmic bliss. "I love you so much" he'd say. "I love you too." "How about next Friday I take you out to dinner?" "I would love that."

I will always be by your side, every step of the way. You will be able to move past this.

I will not try and inflict love, care, empathy or compassion upon you.

Nice to see you again. (Going to see him for the first time since last July in a bit over a week. Actually he already welcomed me back with a phone call.)

I really want to see you everyday as I know that you really need me right now. If you need to stay longer to talk then you can stay as long as you want to. I am here for you 24/7. I will phone you at bed time too, just to say good night. If you need me, just phone me.

"I am moving back to my previous office!"

I finally got my magic wand to work!

That's just brilliant. Xxx

You win. I can't fix you.

from the T I just left a message for: I remember you and I have the answers you are looking for.
(wishful thinking, I know)

Thanks for this thread, JoBo. Reading all these comments, I realize there isn't anything I want my therapist to say that she hasn't already said and continues to say (and demonstrate) in different ways. Feeling unspeakably grateful right now.

Agreed.

I want him to tell me it wasn't my fault. That he believes me. I want him to tell me he cares and doesn't want me to hurt myself, I want him to tell me he doesn't want me to die and if I did, he'd be devastated...

Wishful thinking...

Right now: I overreacted to your email and I'm sorry. It was my stuff.

I'm back from my workshop. See you Tuesday!

Other:
I have the definitive answer as to why you have such strong needs and I'm going to tell you right now.

You can keep seeing me for the same fee until one of us dies or leaves the city.

I'm so glad you could finally cry with me.

I want T to tell me what I am. Am I BPD, bipolar? What?!! If I don't know how can I learn to cope properly?!

I love you and I'll always love you and I'll remind you that I love you frequently so you'll never forget.

I care about you, you are not alone, I will always be there for you, I wish I was there for you while you were battling your childhood, you are not damaged - you are human, I hear you, I see you, I understand you, I will never leave you, I will adopt you.