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May 10, 2015, 07:57 PM
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What happened to you afterwards?
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#2
May 10, 2015, 08:00 PM
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hmmm, I like the question.
I have WANTED to, but no way could I let that happen. I am very interested to see what others say though. |
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May 10, 2015, 08:03 PM
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I have raised my voice. The second one I see says people sometimes scream or curl up or both. It does not seem to have fazed her from her demeanor when relating it.
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May 10, 2015, 08:12 PM
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I have yelled but not screamed. I yelled, "STOP!" at him. He stopped. We sat quietly for a few minutes and then he started talking very softly about me having control and he was sorry if he pushed or forced something.
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May 10, 2015, 08:14 PM
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Not screamed, no. But I yelled at her more than once. And stomped my feet many times. One time when I still saw her in person, I was in quite a mood and didn't want to talk, so she suggested I do a sand tray and I told her no, I better not, because I would likely just dump the sand on the floor and start it completely from scratch because that's how I felt that she was trying to do to me... dump me out and start me from scratch.... she didn't miss a beat, said she would go find some big plastic bags we could spread out on the floor so I could do that! I didn't, of course. But how awesome that she would have let me. Thanks for this thread, I hadn't thought about that particular session in a long time and it's one more reminder of what an awesome t I had!!
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May 10, 2015, 08:27 PM
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Have screamed quite a bit. Younger alters do it when they have severe flashbacks. T always handles it well. One of our teenage alters was getting into a fight with T and trying to hit her so T restrained her. Apparently (according to t) she then started having flashbacks and screamed at the person who hurt her. T held her while she cried and calmed her down.
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May 10, 2015, 08:39 PM
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Oh yes, I have. Especially in the midst of the most difficult of my trauma work, I screamed/yelled right in her ear (phone therapy) more than once. I screamed about my struggles, sometimes in pain and sometimes in anger. And I have been shrill with her at least once that comes to mind.
She's handled it graciously, therapeutically. I do not know if I would have done that if we met face to face, or if I would have felt more constrained, that's hard to guess with certainty. |
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May 10, 2015, 08:42 PM
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Last week T told me to scream and stomp around. That's not me. Doubt I ever could but if I did I'd imagine she'd be okay with it.
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