If you could spend a day with your T.....

I'm not sure about a whole day, but an afternoon of coffee and talking would be nice. I'd like to know more about him, get to know him better. I'd also like to go to his house, see where and how he lives, meet his wife and kids.

This is actually happening for me tomorrow and I don't know what to expect. But I am so so so so soooo excited!

I'm hoping to get to this point where I don't want to spend as much time with her.

I know he likes beer, as do I, so going for a few beers, sampling different kinds and comparing, would be fun. Going to a concert with early music, which we both love. Otherwise, just sitting somewhere reading - it's one of my favourite ways of socialising.

Sawyerr, that's exciting - let us know how it goes!

Same. I'd like to see where she sleeps, what her bathroom and kitchen look like, spend time with her preparing lunch, then off to the garden with her dog: talking, sharing stuff, etc.
I'd get to see her living room, which books she reads, what's her favourite TV program, etc.
Sounds boring I know but it's actually fascinating to me. I'd like to see her in her "natural habitat" so to speak.
The only difference: I do NOT want to meet her kids and husband. The day would just be the two of us.le

I would invite him and his wife to dinner with my friends and family. I love to cook and entertain and let him see I'm a competent wife, mother,friend! I'm not just the sad person he sees sitting across the room. then i'd like to play cards against humanity!!! lol

...crikey... See below.

My t has been out of the country for a few years so i went to visit her (she invited me). I spent ten days with her. We did lots of stuff. Beach, lunch, shopping, lots and lots of talking, going out to dinner, went to the zoo, went to the park, lots of long walks,shopped for groceries, etc. It was lots and lots of fun and we had time to get lots of intense therapy done.oh, and we climbed a mountain and had a little picnic at the top. That was really great.
Other times, my t has come to visit me and we do basically the same things, except there is no beach where i live. She went to see where i work, met some of my friends. We went for long walks. She taught me to roller blade. Things like that.

Scorpiosis, I did my first 5K mud run last year...and it happened to be scheduled ON the day my T got married! LOL I LOVED IT!

I'm not sure I'd want to spend a whole day with my T. There are times I wish our sessions could be longer, but I'm talking an extra half hour or hour, not a whole day. Our interests are too different to want to spend an entire day doing something with her. I think I'd actually find such a thing super stressful!

My social worker T has offered to take me to the movies, so I sort of have had this opportunity already.

Main T does not see me outside her office.

Day with T

We wake up in bed together and she rolls over and goes to kiss me but her breath smells so I decline but she kisses me anyway. Then I shower and dress before she can join me in the shower. Then we meet for breakfast at the table and we discuss what we are going to do. We decide to go horse riding together and later go to the movies, and finish it off by having dinner together at an expensive restaurant. Then we go home and are too tired to have sex but we make out a little and fall asleep in each other's arms.

pretty sure i wouldnt want to spend a day with my T just hanging out. i dont think thats very appropriate (just my opinion)... i would rather hang out with my friends or my mom/sister/gma etc.

"Natural habitat" - good choice of words. LOL

I've already met her husband and one child so no need to do that again.

First, I would like to visit her at home and see all of her paintings and photographs. Maybe we could paint together; she could teach me how to use oils. After that, and a tour of her house, we'd go walk along the beach and talk, not about me, but about her. We might also go to another scenic spot, one that she would choose. Then I'd take her to my house to see my artwork and other interesting things we own. We'd then go out to dinner and that would be it. It would be a very nice day! Eta: I forgot to say that T would be holding my hand a lot, too.

For 24 hours, I would just want to lay in bed next to her and have her hold me. Go to her house. No one else. Maybe brush my hair... Cuddling... Hand holding for 24 HOURS??? OMG my dream would come true if I could do that!!!! Just have her touch and love me for 1 whole day. Like a mom.. At her house. Maybe even go to the mall with her but I would love just to be with her on a couch or bed, and not across from her or even next to each other on two separate chairs... I've seen my T for 5 years btw. And I'm female. I don't think, I want to do anything sexual with her during the 24 hours. That really confuses me to think about, but I keep thinking of it. Ugh I would do anything to have that 1 day!!!

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I would be really upset if I met her husband or children or family... I would probably have a mental breakdown of some sort.

Her children are older than me I know (they are like 20-25 y/o and 2 boys) so at least they are boys!! I MIGHT be okay with that. I don't think I could take it if she had a girl... Knowing she was a mother to another girl I don't even want to think about other younger girl clients she sees... I would feel devastated *crys*

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This is a really interesting question...

I think I would like to start it with a walk outside somewhere there isn't a lot of other people. It would also be awesome to share a couple of drinks at a bar. She really only sees one side of me so if I was drinking some, I would be much more laid back and my sense of humor would probably come out.

I guess I would maybe want to go on a run with her or do a 5k because I know she is a pretty avid runner. Oh, and have her dog join us!

I would like to sit on a blanket and look at the stars while cuddling with my T. I love her hugs so cuddling would feel so good. Nothing sexual. What I would give for a day like that. It really makes you think.

Oh god, that sounds amazing too! I would give up so many things. God I wish she would lay with me at night. Why can we live together

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I feel like I could have written your last two posts. I know my T is married and has two sons but I never want to meet them. I know I would have a mental breakdown and probably have to be in the hospital.

I am so thankful my T has sons. I also would not be able to take it if she was a mother to a girl. It would hurt so much more than it already does

So relatable, it hurts to see someone else suffer
I'm sorry

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Yes! What I would give to live with my T and be able to see her and talk to her everyday. She really is special.

Thank you. I am sorry you are suffering. Feel free to PM me anytime. We seem to almost be the same person. it sucks when you want something you never had and then to realize you can't have it with someone you care about so much.

There are not too many people in this world I want or can spend all day with. Romantic partner if we live together. My daughter. That's it. I love my mom and my bro etc but the the entire day with them is only ok if they need help etc like sickness or what not.

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If had one ... Nothing. I don't get attached to therapists. I have a mentor who is a therapist (and saw her very briefly)
We talk all the time regardless. I'd just have a coffee or something with her.

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