Cussing at therapist

No, but I curse a lot :P

No, but I had one that called me a b**ch, then backtracked to call it role play even though her pretend scene had nothing to do with insulting anyone. I called her on the fact that she didn't even take a breath to think up a slur to hurl at me.

I have not cussed at my T. I love her too much for that. I have cussed in session talking about certain things. I asked her if it bothered her and if she wanted me to stop using those words and she said it was fine and a healthy way I can release the anger I was feeling about what had happened in my childhood.

Quite often, yes,

Oh dear. I hope you ran from that therapy relationship. UGH.

I generally don't swear at anyone because I consider that very rude no matter how upset you are (now when i am screaming at other cars on the road...that's different ), but I have a feeling I could probably swear at my T and she wouldn't be upset.

Oh, yes, I've screamed F you at her many times.

Did you get admitted to the hospital?

Nope! I don't swear at ppl in a professional setting, I will swear but not at them.

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I would never do that and most certainly wouldn't like it done to me. Common courtesy (or decency) in my book.

I've never cursed at T, but I have definitely wanted to.

Therapists are hired hands, I guess . I've had the best results knowing specifically what my visit is about; sometimes I need to write it down, then stick to the agenda of what I'd like some objective feedback on.

You can't blame your therapist if you haven't done your "homework", so-to-speak; if you walk in with an explosive, tangential condition, you're probably going out in the same decomposition. Nobody can make you choose to listen to another perspective, or how you sound in relation to the condition you were diagnosed with.

That old saying, "It's your dollar!" really does apply. You are paying for the services of a clinician-it's your responsibility to use your "dime" in a productive way.

Therapists are only human, afterall

When I am talking, I curse, then I apologize. He say's it's okay. I don't curse directly AT him though.

yeah, i did

I am terrified of this happening to me. Can I ask why they admitted you?

I wouldn't cuss at or finger my T. I got mad at her once and just said I was mad and she was happy because I never usually get mad at anyone but myself. I think that things happen and if it was a one-time thing it isn't the end of the world but I don't like people to cuss at or be aggressive with me so I wouldn't do it to anyone else.

i was psychotic and suicidal and he was pretty concerned. he told me i could go voluntarily or he would try to get me involuntarily committed. i drove off and up a mountain like 30 min away. he called the police and gave them my car info. i eventually came back and went voluntarily. he was eating dinner and he said when he sits down to eat he thinks about things he is thankful for and he said he was thankful that i am safe.

it is scary when it happens, but it was necessary for me at that time

It sounds like you have a really good T. Im glad you got the help you needed and you are safe now.

When they say you can say ANYTHING here, I assumed that includes cursing. However, I've never cussed at my T but I do curse on rare occasion when describing something really crappy that happened or something I was mad about. When acknowledging he will sometimes reuse my curse words.