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Old Sep 07, 2015, 01:32 PM
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I'm very sorry for your loss Rainbow... Hugging you in spirit

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Old Sep 07, 2015, 02:07 PM
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Rainbow I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 03:02 PM
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oh rainbow, that went quickly! I am so so sorry
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 03:29 PM
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So sorry for your loss rainbow. I understand how hard it is to lose someone who is a part of your life. Be kind to yourself and reach out to others for support. My prayers are with you.
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 03:32 PM
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Rainbow, I am so sorry for your loss.
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 03:39 PM
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 03:44 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss, Rainbow. You're in my thoughts.

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Old Sep 07, 2015, 03:48 PM
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 04:10 PM
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It was sudden but not unexpected. I don't want to write about it now. My T is out- of-town but not too far and said she'd come back for the funeral. I can't believe that. It's tomorrow morning.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Take good care of yourself.
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 04:16 PM
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 05:09 PM
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So, so sorry, Rainbow. Thoughts and prayers being sent your way.
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 06:11 PM
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I am so sorry rainbow. I am sure the coming days are going to be very difficult. Take care of yourself and allow others to be a source of support for you.
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 07:07 PM
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Every day after a death is such a long hard day. All the things that have to be done. People calling, coming. People wanting to hug you, even when you don't want it.

Phone calls, paperwork, plans. When you just don't want to do anything.

Tears come, yet there are moments of laughter. So very odd. Like Twilight Zone weird. Surreal.

Is this really happening?

I am not a religious person. But, so many times in the past week, I find myself talking to my dead sister. What do you want me to do? Am I doing what you want? Please indicate to me, give me a sign, anything. Do you want me to do this different?

Nothing. Not one single sense of her presence. Is it that you are too "busy" after you die to have any time for the living? Or is it, simply, that you are gone. No more.

I don't know. This is my first family death. And it's my sister not my husband. I know for a fact that my husband dying would be way harder.

Rainbow, are you also talking to your husband? Do you feel he is communicating, somehow/someway with you?

I completely understand if you do not answer this. It's just been so surprising to me that I can't FEEL her, even when I am opening my mind and heart.

Massive hugs to you sweetie - but only if you want them;-).
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 08:28 PM
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Rainbow, I am so, so sorry for your loss and I wish you nothing but peace in the days ahead. Thinking of you. Check in with us when you feel ready.
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 08:29 PM
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I'm sorry Rainbow.
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 09:35 PM
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So sorry Rainbow. Thinking of you.
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 09:47 PM
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Im very sorry for your loss. I am thinking of you rainbow.
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 10:21 PM
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I'm so very sorry, Rainbow. I wish you peace and strength.
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 11:21 PM
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I'm so sorry! That's such a shock!
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Old Sep 07, 2015, 11:45 PM
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Really sorry for your loss.
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Old Sep 08, 2015, 12:03 AM
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we are very sorry for your loss and extend our deepest condolences and sympathies to you and yours♥♥♥
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Old Sep 08, 2015, 02:33 AM
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So sorry to hear that rainbow, I hope you are doing ok? Thinking of you x

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Old Sep 08, 2015, 04:28 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. xoxoxo
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Old Sep 08, 2015, 07:49 AM
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Thank you, everyone. I'm doing okay but I don't think it hit me yet. There are lots of people around, family and friends. Yes, T came to the funeral and happened to arrive when we were walking in so she got to meet some of my family. I appreciate all of the hugs and posts.
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Old Sep 08, 2015, 09:14 AM
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