Emotional Intelligence Test

81...I'd like to know where I didn't score well but I don't think it's worth paying for. Gives me some good talking points to bring up with T, though!

I like the suggestions for the most part, but this one I wasn't a fan of. Just to offer an alternative perspective...I think that it can be useful to try and lean to accept that humans are a very interconnected species, and our mirror neurons can make us experience the actions of others very strongly. Sometimes we can do something about these experiences, and rise up against them, but this won't always be the case. Sometimes we are at the mercy of others, and they can have tremendous power over us. This is not something that is very comfortable to understand, but it is the reality of being human. And because of this sometimes the only thing we can do is acknowledge that there was nothing that we could do--and that we were indeed a victim.

Overall knowing this information should encourage us to try to create a society where we acknowledge the need to to try and act in in responsible and compassionate way towards others...and where we acknowledge the moments of powerlessness that others face as a way of understanding their pain and relieving them of feelings of guilt and shame.

I know that this author want to acknowledge our power to create change in the world, but sometimes the world has the power to change hurt and harm us. And that is just something that we have to grieve.

62, seems about right for me.

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83, but I felt unsure of the situation questions.

Possible trigger:

What did everyone choose for the manager who supervised the boss' son who was not doing his job well?

And, what did everyone choose for the man whose dentist made him wait 45+ mins with no end in sight?

How about the boss who piled extra work on the employee's desk at the end of the day, the person work extra?? All the choices seemed not good.

I also felt unsure of the expressions part, because all the expressions seemed ambiguous depending on what facts we know.

Also I find it is not always accurate to assume what people's expressions mean. For example my dad looks sad when he is actually happy. He just enjoys making sad faces.

What did everyone choose for the manager who supervised the boss' son who was not doing his job well? Speak to the boss - nepotism rules

And, what did everyone choose for the man whose dentist made him wait 45+ mins with no end in sight? Reschedule - question of priorities

How about the boss who piled extra work on the employee's desk at the end of the day, the person work extra?? All the choices seemed not good. Negotiate - I'll do the work but I you must understand it comes after my regular duties - shows willing but makes the point

I am not one for stereotypes but I would be suspicious of any man who scored over 60.

ok I scored a 72 but if I lie my butt off and tell the test what I think it wants to hear I can get a 96. Ok now I have to decide if I'm bored enough to take it a 3rd time and see what's the lowest I can get