Three days to go ...

Indeed if the therapist does not object, I have no idea why how I go about it so distresses anyone here. Dangerous just makes me laugh and certainly gives me more power than I have. Ideas are not dangerous. I asked the woman, at the first appointment, what were the rules. She said pay on time and leave when the appointment time ended and that was all. I merely take her at her word. They set the ballgame up - not clients.
The therapist and I have an understanding. To me, when in the capacity as a therapist - she is Other. I have told her, she knows exactly how I see it. I simply expect the rules to be the same on both sides. She is no more than coldly polite to me, I am the same to her as I see it.
People have different ideas about therapy and may use therapy as they see fit just as I do. I am not trying to stop others in how they do it. I think those guys are the ones who always talk about each dyad is unique.

(And FYI - I don't throw money at the woman - I toss it on the table as I exit-exactly on time and without another word.)

OP - I hope you can tell the therapist in some way about your feelings about being dismissed and I very much hope she listens.

No sugar coating going on here. Just thinking there might be a disparity between your perception and her perception. Usually more than one perspective going on. But you seem to have a good idea about your therapist. I hope you will be able to talk it through and get beyond it. Sounds like otherwise you have been okay with your work together. Good luck with your appointment.

I often write just to better clarify/word things. The writing part helps me. I wouldn't read aloud either.