Quote:
Originally Posted by LvnWrd
Hello,
I am not sure this is the correct forum to ask such question, but i would love some opinions on this matter.
My brother has some issues with my parents. I live in Europe with my parents and he lives in the US. He started seeing a therapist about 6 months ago, and the therapist requested my brother shut down almost all communication with my parents, and that without even talking to them or trying to get their side of the story. Needless to say it destroyed my parents, and I must ask this question :
Is it a normal thing for a therapist to do, or should I get worried my brother is being manipulated ? Since he arrived recently to the USA, he knows nobody for a long time there and has no "trusting" friends, making im an ideal target for cults.. right ?
|
Unfortunately there is nothing you can really do. Did the therapist tell you him/her self that she was requesting the separation? If not, you don't know the dynamics of this interaction. It is quite possible that your brother went to the therapist and vented to him about his relationship with his parents and the therapist encouraged him to create healthy distance between himself and your parents. The message that then gets passed on to you is that the therapist is TELLING him to cut off communication. I honestly don't think that your brother is being manipulated. Is your brother older? Do you know how your brother interacts with your parents? I hate to say it, but quite often one child gets the brunt of the harshness from parents (abuse) while the other kids are completely oblivious to what's going on and think things are hunky dory. I encourage you to talk to your brother about the situation and not jump to the conclusion that he's being manipulated.