Home Menu

Menu


View Poll Results: how do you feel about it
i think/feel we see eye to eye 14 28.00%
i think/feel we see eye to eye
14 28.00%
dont have any problems with how they see me 12 24.00%
dont have any problems with how they see me
12 24.00%
it bothers me a little 1 2.00%
it bothers me a little
1 2.00%
i havent thought about it much 3 6.00%
i havent thought about it much
3 6.00%
i have no idea how they feel about me 12 24.00%
i have no idea how they feel about me
12 24.00%
i think i feel differently about the topic than they do 7 14.00%
i think i feel differently about the topic than they do
7 14.00%
other 1 2.00%
other
1 2.00%
Voters: 50. You may not vote on this poll

Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Feb 07, 2016, 09:45 PM
Anonymous37884
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
how do you think they see you like do you think they see you for who you are or as someone sick who needs their help or do you think they dont see you at all. basically i am asking what do you think your therapist/psychologist thinks about you. aslo do you like it/find it annoying ect.

advertisement
  #2  
Old Feb 07, 2016, 09:50 PM
spring2014's Avatar
spring2014 spring2014 is offline
Grand Member
 
Member Since: Sep 2014
Location: somewhere between hell and back over the rainbow
Posts: 834
Quote:
Originally Posted by eden1515 View Post
how do you think they see you like do you think they see you for who you are or as someone sick who needs their help or do you think they dont see you at all. basically i am asking what do you think your therapist/psychologist thinks about you. aslo do you like it/find it annoying ect.
hi eden ,
my therapist sees me who I am as her client . she helping me to become well again . she doesn't think that im annoying to her cuz of the client/ counselor relationship between my therapist and I





Diagnosis : Anxiety and depression
meds: Cymbalta 60 mgs at night
Vistrail 2 25 mgs daily for anxiety prn
50 mgs at night for insomnia with an additional 25 mgs =75 mgs when up past 1:00 in the morning
__________________
  #3  
Old Feb 07, 2016, 10:05 PM
Anonymous37785
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
I saw myself as helpless, and not having any control over my life, with no hope for the future. My therapist didn't see it that way. She kept her vision (different from mine), to herself until I could voice all the injustices and pain I was experiencing from childhood. Eventually, I came to see things differently, more eye to eye with the therapist. We did not always agree on how to get there, but it was my process, and she was glad to let me be in the driver's seat.
  #4  
Old Feb 07, 2016, 10:10 PM
precaryous's Avatar
precaryous precaryous is offline
Inner Space Traveler
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: on the wing of an eagle
Posts: 3,901
My T says she sees us as equals...

I think our views about each other evolve over time and experience with each other.

Right now I feel she sees me for who I am... She seems open to exploring all that I am...and anything else I might bring to therapy.
Thanks for this!
Out There
  #5  
Old Feb 07, 2016, 10:13 PM
nottrustin's Avatar
nottrustin nottrustin is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Jan 2014
Location: n/a
Posts: 4,823
She sees me as a lot stronger than I see myself. I also think she sometimes gives me WAY to much credit. We agree to disagree and move on. It doesn't bother me; it is just the way it is.
__________________

  #6  
Old Feb 07, 2016, 10:14 PM
Anonymous37844
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
I voted I have no idea how they see me. I have never asked and without asking it is just speculation or a reflection of my own feelings for myself.
  #7  
Old Feb 07, 2016, 10:20 PM
Cinnamon_Stick's Avatar
Cinnamon_Stick Cinnamon_Stick is offline
Grand Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2015
Location: USA
Posts: 1,677
My T and I see eye to eye. She has also said that we are equals. She has said she sees me as someone who is strong, determined and has so much potential. She thinks I have so much to offer in relationships. I don't always see or believe these things. We agree and sometimes disagree but we talk about it and move on. She really "gets" me and gets the pain I feel.
Thanks for this!
Out There
  #8  
Old Feb 07, 2016, 10:28 PM
Argonautomobile's Avatar
Argonautomobile Argonautomobile is offline
Magnate
 
Member Since: Sep 2015
Location: usa
Posts: 2,422
Lately I think my T thinks I'm crazy!

But in general my T is awesome and sees the best in me. I hope yours does, too.
__________________
"Fantasy, abandoned by reason, produces impossible monsters; united with it, she is the mother of the arts and the origin of their marvels." - Francisco de Goya
  #9  
Old Feb 07, 2016, 10:43 PM
stopdog stopdog is offline
underdog is here
 
Member Since: Sep 2011
Location: blank
Posts: 35,154
I don't know - for me it really doesn't matter.
__________________
Please NO @

Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
Oscar Wilde
Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
  #10  
Old Feb 07, 2016, 11:18 PM
AllHeart's Avatar
AllHeart AllHeart is offline
Magnate
 
Member Since: Feb 2015
Location: USA
Posts: 2,024
I don't have any problems with the way my t sees me for the most part. She always sees the good in me even when I cannot. And that's even when I'm very needy of her, feel like I'm too much for her to handle, have too many burdens, etc. Once I learned how to trust and put my faith in my t I was able to accept her views of me as well as start to see them in myself. She sometimes tells me she thinks the world of me, but, I think that's a bit of a stretch which is why I didn't choose the "eye to eye" poll option.
  #11  
Old Feb 07, 2016, 11:25 PM
DelusionsDaily's Avatar
DelusionsDaily DelusionsDaily is offline
Conflicted...
 
Member Since: Jul 2010
Location: The darkness
Posts: 3,356
Dont think about it...not sure it matters unless it starts to interfere with our work together. I dont sense that if I did I'd address it.

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  #12  
Old Feb 07, 2016, 11:37 PM
velcro003's Avatar
velcro003 velcro003 is offline
Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2008
Posts: 7,383
I put other, because I can't be in my T's head and know what she is thinking when we are together (about me), but from evidence of our week to week sessions, she seems invested and cares about what is going on in my life. She could be inwardly thinking that I am extremely frustrating, and annoying, but she doesn't act like it, so I guess I don't care! I mean I do, but actions speak louder than words right, and her actions have always been towards her liking me enough to care about my well-being.

I think she takes me exactly as I am, where I am at, and doesn't project some sort of "goal" that she wants me to reach for. It is what I want (or not want, or am confused about), and she just goes with it.
  #13  
Old Feb 08, 2016, 12:15 AM
pmbm's Avatar
pmbm pmbm is offline
Member
 
Member Since: Aug 2013
Location: New York State
Posts: 245
My therapist sees me as very strong and calls me a warrior princess, I don't always see myself like this, but I like looking through her eyes and learning new stuff about myself.
__________________
Patty
Pattyspathtohealing.WordPress.com
Thanks for this!
AllHeart
  #14  
Old Feb 08, 2016, 02:46 AM
vonmoxie's Avatar
vonmoxie vonmoxie is offline
deus ex machina
 
Member Since: Jul 2014
Location: Ticket-taking at the cartesian theater.
Posts: 2,379
I think that as it often is with any specialty professional, my therapist has a viewpoint that is somewhat narrow in scope, and in his case which also happens to be less spiritually and intellectually holistic than is my own. He applies a lot of his own biases to how he sees me, which have nothing to do with me but everything to do with the nature of compassion fatigue and reduced critical thinking. Seeing his interpretations happen, it's like watching a movie being made of my life by tired scriptwriters reusing whatever tired plot devices are handiest at the time, and which bears little to no resemblance to my actual life. I suppose it offers me some bettered contrast, in providing me an alternately lensed view of what portion of my reality is not comprehensible to others, or just will not be received.. the outline of the body of my aloneness, that which is mine alone to bear.
__________________
“We use our minds not to discover facts but to hide them. One of things the screen hides most effectively is the body, our own body, by which I mean, the ins and outs of it, its interiors. Like a veil thrown over the skin to secure its modesty, the screen partially removes from the mind the inner states of the body, those that constitute the flow of life as it wanders in the journey of each day.
Antonio R. Damasio, “The Feeling of What Happens: Body and Emotion in the Making of Consciousness” (p.28)
Thanks for this!
Out There
  #15  
Old Feb 08, 2016, 03:49 AM
Chummy's Avatar
Chummy Chummy is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Feb 2015
Location: Europe
Posts: 1,365
I don't really know how my T sees me. I've never asked, but I want to know.
She has said that even though she's the T and I'm the client, we're equals. She thinks I can do certain things, but that I don't do them because of anxiety. I think I don't do those things because I think I can't and I'm a failure. She says it's not a bad things to be a quiet/calm person and that is't oke to not be a chatterbox. She thinks I'm strong (I disagree, I don't feel strong).

I don't know much more.

I've know idea how my Pdoc sees me. When I'm with him, I'm such a quiet, dumb, small girl, it would surprise me if he doesn't think I'm a hopeless idiot.
  #16  
Old Feb 08, 2016, 09:05 AM
junkDNA's Avatar
junkDNA junkDNA is offline
Comfy Sedation
 
Member Since: Sep 2012
Location: the woods
Posts: 19,305
I think he cares about me a great deal but I feel like I annoy him sometimes

Sent from my SM-G900V using Tapatalk
__________________
  #17  
Old Feb 08, 2016, 11:54 AM
divine1966's Avatar
divine1966 divine1966 is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Dec 2014
Location: US
Posts: 23,230
My t sees me the way I am. I think.

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
  #18  
Old Feb 08, 2016, 01:57 PM
awkwardlyyours awkwardlyyours is offline
Is Untitled
 
Member Since: Feb 2016
Location: here and there
Posts: 2,617
At the very beginning, I had the sense that she thought I was a bit of an arrogant jerk, which didn't though seem to preclude her from being compassionate about my stuff.

My response to that was to kind of force myself to start pouring out my life story (else, I knew I'd get caught up in how I thought she saw me and so, I'd become more and more guarded and the cycle would never end). I guess that somehow worked because I'm no longer worried about how she sees me -- I still don't know what that is (although I'm fairly certain she doesn't see me negatively any more) and I occasionally wonder but it doesn't eat me up.
Reply
Views: 1507

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 09:53 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.