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i think/feel we see eye to eye |
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14 | 28.00% | |||
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dont have any problems with how they see me |
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12 | 24.00% | |||
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it bothers me a little |
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1 | 2.00% | |||
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i havent thought about it much |
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3 | 6.00% | |||
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i have no idea how they feel about me |
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12 | 24.00% | |||
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i think i feel differently about the topic than they do |
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7 | 14.00% | |||
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other |
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1 | 2.00% | |||
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#1
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how do you think they see you like do you think they see you for who you are or as someone sick who needs their help or do you think they dont see you at all. basically i am asking what do you think your therapist/psychologist thinks about you. aslo do you like it/find it annoying ect.
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#2
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my therapist sees me who I am as her client . she helping me to become well again . she doesn't think that im annoying to her cuz of the client/ counselor relationship between my therapist and I Diagnosis : Anxiety and depression meds: Cymbalta 60 mgs at night Vistrail 2 25 mgs daily for anxiety prn 50 mgs at night for insomnia with an additional 25 mgs =75 mgs when up past 1:00 in the morning
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I saw myself as helpless, and not having any control over my life, with no hope for the future. My therapist didn't see it that way. She kept her vision (different from mine), to herself until I could voice all the injustices and pain I was experiencing from childhood. Eventually, I came to see things differently, more eye to eye with the therapist. We did not always agree on how to get there, but it was my process, and she was glad to let me be in the driver's seat.
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My T says she sees us as equals...
I think our views about each other evolve over time and experience with each other. Right now I feel she sees me for who I am... She seems open to exploring all that I am...and anything else I might bring to therapy. |
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She sees me as a lot stronger than I see myself. I also think she sometimes gives me WAY to much credit. We agree to disagree and move on. It doesn't bother me; it is just the way it is.
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I voted I have no idea how they see me. I have never asked and without asking it is just speculation or a reflection of my own feelings for myself.
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My T and I see eye to eye. She has also said that we are equals. She has said she sees me as someone who is strong, determined and has so much potential. She thinks I have so much to offer in relationships. I don't always see or believe these things. We agree and sometimes disagree but we talk about it and move on. She really "gets" me and gets the pain I feel.
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Lately I think my T thinks I'm crazy!
But in general my T is awesome and sees the best in me. I hope yours does, too.
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I don't know - for me it really doesn't matter.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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I don't have any problems with the way my t sees me for the most part. She always sees the good in me even when I cannot. And that's even when I'm very needy of her, feel like I'm too much for her to handle, have too many burdens, etc. Once I learned how to trust and put my faith in my t I was able to accept her views of me as well as start to see them in myself. She sometimes tells me she thinks the world of me, but, I think that's a bit of a stretch which is why I didn't choose the "eye to eye" poll option.
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Dont think about it...not sure it matters unless it starts to interfere with our work together. I dont sense that if I did I'd address it.
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I put other, because I can't be in my T's head and know what she is thinking when we are together (about me), but from evidence of our week to week sessions, she seems invested and cares about what is going on in my life. She could be inwardly thinking that I am extremely frustrating, and annoying, but she doesn't act like it, so I guess I don't care! I mean I do, but actions speak louder than words right, and her actions have always been towards her liking me enough to care about my well-being.
I think she takes me exactly as I am, where I am at, and doesn't project some sort of "goal" that she wants me to reach for. It is what I want (or not want, or am confused about), and she just goes with it. |
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My therapist sees me as very strong and calls me a warrior princess, I don't always see myself like this, but I like looking through her eyes and learning new stuff about myself.
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I think that as it often is with any specialty professional, my therapist has a viewpoint that is somewhat narrow in scope, and in his case which also happens to be less spiritually and intellectually holistic than is my own. He applies a lot of his own biases to how he sees me, which have nothing to do with me but everything to do with the nature of compassion fatigue and reduced critical thinking. Seeing his interpretations happen, it's like watching a movie being made of my life by tired scriptwriters reusing whatever tired plot devices are handiest at the time, and which bears little to no resemblance to my actual life. I suppose it offers me some bettered contrast, in providing me an alternately lensed view of what portion of my reality is not comprehensible to others, or just will not be received.. the outline of the body of my aloneness, that which is mine alone to bear.
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“We use our minds not to discover facts but to hide them. One of things the screen hides most effectively is the body, our own body, by which I mean, the ins and outs of it, its interiors. Like a veil thrown over the skin to secure its modesty, the screen partially removes from the mind the inner states of the body, those that constitute the flow of life as it wanders in the journey of each day.” — Antonio R. Damasio, “The Feeling of What Happens: Body and Emotion in the Making of Consciousness” (p.28) |
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I don't really know how my T sees me. I've never asked, but I want to know.
She has said that even though she's the T and I'm the client, we're equals. She thinks I can do certain things, but that I don't do them because of anxiety. I think I don't do those things because I think I can't and I'm a failure. She says it's not a bad things to be a quiet/calm person and that is't oke to not be a chatterbox. She thinks I'm strong (I disagree, I don't feel strong). I don't know much more. I've know idea how my Pdoc sees me. When I'm with him, I'm such a quiet, dumb, small girl, it would surprise me if he doesn't think I'm a hopeless idiot. |
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I think he cares about me a great deal but I feel like I annoy him sometimes
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My t sees me the way I am. I think.
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At the very beginning, I had the sense that she thought I was a bit of an arrogant jerk, which didn't though seem to preclude her from being compassionate about my stuff.
My response to that was to kind of force myself to start pouring out my life story (else, I knew I'd get caught up in how I thought she saw me and so, I'd become more and more guarded and the cycle would never end). I guess that somehow worked because I'm no longer worried about how she sees me -- I still don't know what that is (although I'm fairly certain she doesn't see me negatively any more) and I occasionally wonder but it doesn't eat me up. |
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