How would you interpret this - Sometimes T says "goodbye", sometimes not

I don't think saying goodbye versus not saying goodbye is something that would really register for me so I don't have a good answer for you. But then I overanalyze many social situations so I can understand the stress you have from worrying

Thanks. Yes, that´s how it is for me, I feel hurt and it also makes me puzzled as she a couple of times has followed me to the door. What was that then? A bit of a better mood during that day? Hard to understand.

As she just loses when behaving like this I feel I get as ignorant as her, I "pay back" with the same attitude. For several times now I´ve although she has behaved in this cold or odd way, I have said goodbye, thanked her for the session and so on.

As I know many T:s are more caring and more sensitive to these things I don´t want to give her instructions. If she thinks she´ll get somewhere by acting like this, fine. She´s working within public health care and by that it isn´t that easy for her to just drop my case.

I have really shown interest in this therapy, I´ve been cooperative with details from my life and so on. I´ll reply in the same way as she does.

Thanks. To me a T has to be consistent or else it shows a caring gesture wasn´t actually caring if he/she the next time just ignores being caring. As for example, one time follow a client to the door and next without reason he/she doesn´t.

I could understand if the session brought some arguments and then you don´t feel you want to be caring. But if the session just passes like a "normal" one, then a T should have a routine to close a session in a good way.

Even if he/she feels a bit down it isn´t that demanding to take 30 secs to follow a client to the door and say goodbye in a nice way.

Do you plan to talk to your therapist about this issue? This is a good opportunity to communicate something you would like to see to your therapist.

I don't believe you have to be critical. Next time you could say "I like when you walk me to the door, feels more caring" I know feeling critical is hard for you.

Its like you're expecting the worst from her, so you are going to give her YOUR worst. Why would you let someone else, who you know so slightly, change how you choose to act?

I can understand it if someone was trying to kill you, you might need to kill them to defend yourself. But otherwise, if you personally always have good manners, why would you stop having good manners just because somebody else is rude? Good manners would mean to handle the incident with good manners - like to ignore it if someone farts. You wouldnt make a big scene!

Okay, people who know me are probably saying... really, una?? like i wouldnt giggle....