How directly do you talk about the C/T relationship?

We talk abt it more than we used to. I've talked with him abt my transference. He told me he had the same feelings for his therapist. It is a little uncomfortable but relieving

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I think that's what I'm dealing with right now, some very deep and very young feelings... from when I didn't have enough words so that's why I can't describe them now... I just emailed these thoughts to my t last night and asked to talk about them next time...

Now, almost all of the time. I've had to call T twice in 8 months due to a transference issue I didn't recognize. In therapy, talking about how I feel or think about T is directly related to how I felt or thought about others in my life, how the relationship progressed or, mostly, fell apart. It's hard. Telling T I feel abandoned when T leaves for a week. But as hard as it is, it's immensely helpful. I finally 'get' the need for attachment.

I wish T would talk more about her/his feelings/experiences with me in therapy, but we mostly talk about how I feel or what I think. I don't know how to bring T into the relationship. Or does that just naturally happen at some point? Echos?