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Old Jul 08, 2007, 07:32 PM
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I am terminating therapy...No since in it anymore now that I know the truth....I have no trust in myself or any other human....I am done...................FP

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Old Jul 08, 2007, 07:46 PM
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Hey.. I'm really sorry to hear that. It sounds as though something happened for you to make this decision... do you care to share more?
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Old Jul 08, 2007, 07:55 PM
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I remembered last night who sexually abused me as a child and its the one person that I swore it couldn't of been and I am devastated...Plus I was getting attached to my T and its time to quit.............FP
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Old Jul 08, 2007, 07:57 PM
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((((((((((FindPeace)))))))))))

It is your decision and everything - but if something that important has come up, are you sure you want to quit now? It isn't bad to get attached to your therapist, it helps us heal - especially if we have problems bonding or being close to other people.

I'm sorry you're going through a rough time.
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Old Jul 08, 2007, 08:00 PM
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Nobody can ever make it right again............FP
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Old Jul 08, 2007, 09:01 PM
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I am sorry you are hurting. You have every right to.

You are right, what was lost cannot be restored, but what is to come can still be built to be beautiful. This doesn't have to be a stopping place, but an opportunity to heal. It will never be right what happened - but you can heal and the suffering can become less and less and you deserve that. You deserve the peace that going through the process will bring you. T's are trained to help you through that process faster and easier and safer than going it alone. But it is your choice.

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Old Jul 08, 2007, 09:27 PM
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I am really sorry you have decided to lose some of your support at such a crucial time. Certainly it is your decision but please think of all sides of the issue before making your decision. I am sorry about what has happened to you in the past. Hopefully you can make the future better. Good luck.

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Old Jul 08, 2007, 09:33 PM
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i'm so sorry to hear you are going through something so painful!!!!!!!!!!!!

i hope you change your mind about quitting therapy since it sounds like you've found a T you like....but even if you do quit remember that you can always go back!!

keep posting!!!
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Old Jul 08, 2007, 09:35 PM
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Old Jul 08, 2007, 09:37 PM
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Old Jul 10, 2007, 11:16 AM
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My T wants me to come in today for closure, unfortunately she can get through to me and I agreed to a final session....
Wish me luck!......FP
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Old Jul 10, 2007, 01:21 PM
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Hi FindPeace,

I hope the visit today goes okay...I can imagine it's difficult to go, but whether it does turn out to be a visit for closure, or somehow you and your T are able to resolve the problems and resume work, my thoughts are sure with you. Hang in there! I know these situations are sure tough, either way. Take gentle care of yourself.

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Old Jul 10, 2007, 01:53 PM
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Thanks ErinBear........FP
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Old Jul 10, 2007, 06:29 PM
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hi findpeace - just wanted to let you know i'm thinking of you.
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Old Jul 10, 2007, 07:33 PM
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Hi Gostryter....Thanks...Well I went to session and I didn't dissociate...My T was able to talk to me without one of my other parts appearing....She asked me what I really wanted to do about therapy and I told her that I wanted to continue but one of my alters did not....It was she that insisted upon terminating....

So long short, I am staying in therapy for now...Now I just have to deal with the alters feelings about staying....FP
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Old Jul 10, 2007, 08:28 PM
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I'm so glad you made that decision! Stay strong, FP.
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Old Jul 10, 2007, 08:36 PM
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yea! i'm glad you decided to stay with it!

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Old Jul 10, 2007, 08:37 PM
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FindPeace, I'm so glad you decided to stay in therapy. Yay! I hope you can find a way to make your alter comfortable there.
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Old Jul 10, 2007, 08:42 PM
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Old Jul 11, 2007, 02:31 AM
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Hi FindPeace,

I am glad you and your T could talk together about the situation. I bet that was a complicated decision to arrive at, but it sounds like a positive one. I'm crossing my fingers for you, and wishing you all the best....please take gentle care of yourself. It sounds hopeful to me. Thinking of you.

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Old Jul 11, 2007, 05:17 AM
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Glad you are staying with T.
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Old Jul 11, 2007, 08:37 AM
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Thanks!...FP
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Old Jul 11, 2007, 03:41 PM
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FindPeace - I am glad you are staying. It is hard but so worth it. ((( FP )))
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