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Originally Posted by mostlylurking
I put "other" because I try not to test my T's memory, but instead I just routinely include reminders. If, say, my uncle comes up in conversation, I'll say "my uncle so-and-so, the one who blah blah," and go on with what I was saying. Not to the point that it's irritating (I hope!!) but partly to make his job easier and partly to avoid possibly having my feelings hurt if he forgot something important to me.
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I didn't realize it, but I do that too with my T. Less so now that we've seen each other for a year now, but I did that until SHE was the one who was regularly using my friends' names and my cat's name...and I was like "Oh, she remembers all of this!" I have a TERRIBLE memory, so her memory fascinates me as she doesn't take notes, and goes right onto the next client...
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