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Old Nov 27, 2016, 09:15 PM
Soccer mom Soccer mom is offline
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I will be attending a business event and I'm 99% sure my ex-T. will be there. I haven't seen her in over 6 months and she terminated me over a year ago.
I now understand she was horrible for me and didn't know how to help me. I have gone back and forth between wanting to send a letter describing what I now realize happened in my therapy and trying to set up a meeting in person to also hear her views now that I'm out of that mindset. I couldn't talk very well with her so part of me wants to finally voice what was happening with me.

I'm extremely anxious to see how it goes. If she's cold and distant, I will probably just send a letter. If she is more open, I may ask if she'll consider meeting with me to discuss my insights.
Just wanted to share. It will be difficult and I'm sure unexpected feelings will surface.
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Old Dec 04, 2016, 06:23 PM
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Hi Soccer mom, how did it go?
Thanks for this!
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Old Dec 04, 2016, 10:36 PM
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I hope things went ok.
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Old Dec 05, 2016, 09:10 AM
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Did you see ex T? How was it?
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Old Dec 08, 2016, 07:16 AM
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No she wasn't working that day so I didn't see her. I've written her a letter for closure that I plan to send to her after Christmas.
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Old Dec 08, 2016, 03:29 PM
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How do you feel about not seeing her there?

How come you are waiting until after Christmas for closure?
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