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Old Jan 01, 2017, 09:59 AM
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It should have been my T arrested along with his Wicked accomplice. Don't feel bad, the families suffered enough while he walked the streets. Maybe they'll get a break now.
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Old Jan 01, 2017, 06:20 PM
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This was in no way your fault JD. You are not a homewrecker you are a victim and he is an abuser. His family are his victims too, and that's all on him.
I agree with this completely.
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Old Jan 01, 2017, 08:40 PM
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I'm glad for you that he was. I wish my former T had been!
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Old Jan 02, 2017, 03:00 PM
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Hi Junk..

If you happen to be interested.... *if* you would find it cathartic... there is a possibility that the authorities in the county that arrested him would be interested in hearing from you. I don't think you have to cause bodily injury for it to be considered "assault," so it's hard to know what he did that got him arrested. If you wanted to, though, you could call the authorities that arrested him and tell them your story. It can help them succeed in their current case against him if previous victims step forward like that. But you are the only one who can know whether participating in seeing him be held accountable under the law would be helpful to you.
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Old Jan 02, 2017, 08:43 PM
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Hi Junk..

If you happen to be interested.... *if* you would find it cathartic... there is a possibility that the authorities in the county that arrested him would be interested in hearing from you. I don't think you have to cause bodily injury for it to be considered "assault," so it's hard to know what he did that got him arrested. If you wanted to, though, you could call the authorities that arrested him and tell them your story. It can help them succeed in their current case against him if previous victims step forward like that. But you are the only one who can know whether participating in seeing him be held accountable under the law would be helpful to you.
i dont know, idk. im all about making this mans life as ****** as possible... i just dont know if i want to be tied to him anymore. another thing is when we settled the lawsuit i basically signed a contract that said i cant talk about it unless with a mental health professional. sooo yea... im not even supposed to talk about it on here
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Old Jan 03, 2017, 06:13 AM
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I would love to try and contact my T to express what she did to me (never got the chance) or to even try taking her to court to repay for my therapy (because MediCal will no longer cover me and I have to pay out of pocket). I also have desire to send her things or show up at her work or house. But I won't do any of that simply because I don't want to be tied to her anymore. I will forsake my chance at closure just so she'll never be a part of my life again.
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Old Jan 03, 2017, 06:57 AM
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I would love to try and contact my T to express what she did to me (never got the chance) or to even try taking her to court to repay for my therapy (because MediCal will no longer cover me and I have to pay out of pocket). I also have desire to send her things or show up at her work or house. But I won't do any of that simply because I don't want to be tied to her anymore. I will forsake my chance at closure just so she'll never be a part of my life again.
Yup. Sometimes doing nothing is the best revenge.
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