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#26
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I wasn't thinking a client would post sui messages, but I can totally see a T monitoring a client's mood or looking for signs. Eg, client asking her friend to take care of her cat, giving away stuff, etc. Leading to overreaction by the T.
But a client shouldnt have to worry about their T looking them up, changing their habits and online preferences because of a therapist's need to look online. People may be ok with strangers seeing then in a bikini on FB, but totally creeped out by their T doing it after disclosing sexual feelings. It can ruin the safety of the therapy frame for the client. People will have oersonal opinions on this, but I agree with the APA on this one. |
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I agree that if the therapist is doing it a lot, it is creepy and probably says a lot more about the therapist than the client.
I can understand clients wanting to google the therapist too, but I'm not sure it's always all that healthy to know too much about your therapist. I wish I didn't know that my therapist was religious because I have such anti-religion feelings right now. And I'm specifically not googling him anymore because I'm worried that I might find out he is a republican. And if he can do his job and accept my agnostic, feminist, liberal opinions in my sessions then does it really matter what his personal beliefs are? |
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Oh dear Lord! I hope my T keeps his mouth shut if he is a Trump supporter because I might jump out of my chair and smack him!
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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I doubt that any I have paid are that interested, but public info is public and if they look me up I don't really care. I don't have any social media presence because I don't understand the allure of it.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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