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Old Feb 14, 2018, 04:45 PM
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My T recently consulted about my case with another T in her practice who does EMDR. EMDR T said that she thought EMDR could be helpful for me. I am not sure that my background includes trauma in the conventional sense, although I admit that I am often quick to minimize things that have happened to me. My T (who specializes in trauma, among other things) said there are some similar elements there, and she quickly ran through a list of specific "flashbulb" memories I have shared that could be good candidates for EMDR. I was started to feel upset hearing them all in a row like that, so maybe she's onto something. I don't have PTSD, but I do have a history of depression/persistent depressive disorder and anxiety.

Anyway, I know folks on here have widely varying opinions of EMDR. Is it worth trying? Are there people who have attempted EMDR and did not specifically fall into a trauma or PTSD category? I am curious about adding another treatment option to help me get to where I want to be, but I admit I am a bit skeptical.

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Old Feb 14, 2018, 05:01 PM
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I haven't tried EMDR but my flashbulb memories WERE associated with dissociated feelings that came up through regular talk therapy with a trauma and dissociation specialist.
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Old Feb 14, 2018, 06:07 PM
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My T recently consulted about my case with another T in her practice who does EMDR. EMDR T said that she thought EMDR could be helpful for me. I am not sure that my background includes trauma in the conventional sense, although I admit that I am often quick to minimize things that have happened to me. My T (who specializes in trauma, among other things) said there are some similar elements there, and she quickly ran through a list of specific "flashbulb" memories I have shared that could be good candidates for EMDR. I was started to feel upset hearing them all in a row like that, so maybe she's onto something. I don't have PTSD, but I do have a history of depression/persistent depressive disorder and anxiety.

Anyway, I know folks on here have widely varying opinions of EMDR. Is it worth trying? Are there people who have attempted EMDR and did not specifically fall into a trauma or PTSD category? I am curious about adding another treatment option to help me get to where I want to be, but I admit I am a bit skeptical.
oh hello, are you me?! that first paragraph pretty much describes me perfectly, though i am not sure i've ever really had flashbulb memories.

i did try EMDR with non-trauma, sort of like you, and it didn't work well for me. my EMDR T showed me a chart of symptoms of trauma, and i had like 99% of those symptoms, but i told her that everyone feels those things at times...so i don't know.

Anyway, i found it difficult because I didn't really have these traumatic memories to try and "resolve," so it didn't go anywhere for me.

That being said, I do know it has been shown to help for depression. My current T has mentioned EMDR to me when I was a witness at a rally here last August that ended up with someone murdererd, and then once again when i hit another car a few weeks ago. I turned her down, but I can see her reasoning.
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Old Feb 14, 2018, 06:17 PM
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There are lots of things EMDR is used for - I do well with it. Flashbulb or flashback memories are things coming from the past and still being troubling. You could give it a go or talk to the T maybe ?
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Old Feb 14, 2018, 08:37 PM
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I was going to try EMDR but I can't seem to find an ethical therapist who can provide safety...

Did those of you who did EMDR work with your therapists for a long time before doing it?
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Old Feb 14, 2018, 08:56 PM
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I was going to try EMDR but I can't seem to find an ethical therapist who can provide safety...

Did those of you who did EMDR work with your therapists for a long time before doing it?
I specifically started seeing Emdr T for that purpose O already had/have a long term talk therapist. But I was stuck woth my Ptsd so we decided to try something different. EMSR t and I started on my second appointment. It has been difficult because of my trust issues. She came bery highly recommended by my pdoc. She is a wonderful T and is very patient it it is hard.
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I was going to try EMDR but I can't seem to find an ethical therapist who can provide safety...

Did those of you who did EMDR work with your therapists for a long time before doing it?
I probably talked to my EMDR T for like 6 months before we actually tried it (i was extremely reticient about the whole thing)
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Old Feb 14, 2018, 10:12 PM
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I was going to try EMDR but I can't seem to find an ethical therapist who can provide safety...

Did those of you who did EMDR work with your therapists for a long time before doing it?
Two years.
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Old Feb 15, 2018, 10:01 AM
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I was going to try EMDR but I can't seem to find an ethical therapist who can provide safety...

Did those of you who did EMDR work with your therapists for a long time before doing it?
How can you tell they are ethical or not from reading their profile? Or did you do interview a few of them?
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Old Feb 15, 2018, 12:16 PM
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How can you tell they are ethical or not from reading their profile? Or did you do interview a few of them?
Long story MoxieDoxie. I don't want to hijack this thread, but if you really want to know, check out my first post in my thread here:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/psyc...dangerous.html
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