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Nov 10, 2007, 09:26 PM
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I just realized after this coming mondays visit I wont see T for 2 weeks or more. Her surgery is this coming wednesday and she's taking the next week off. Depending on when my next app. is it'll be 2 weeks exact or a little more the next week.
I'm so so scared guys, I'm crying. How will I cope? With my T not there? What will I do when I'm crying and life has nothing to give me? I can't call her...no thing.... I'm also really worried about her surgery..I love T so much... She's such a soldier in my army...an Army of one...her.... What will I do....=(((((( No T for 2 weeks...My T,...this T....she's so special, how will....how can I?...i pray badly she tells me something on Monday that can stick in my head through those 2 weeks...but god....I"ll miss her....... Dustin |
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Nov 10, 2007, 09:36 PM
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collect 14 pennies (one for each night) and pour them on your nightstand near your bed. each night before you go to sleep, put one of the pennies back into the cup. this way you will be able to visually see the days going by and the time until you see your T smaller and smaller. just a suggestion
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Nov 11, 2007, 04:03 AM
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 Dustin: hey, long time no see!!! What's going on now Dustin? U sound just like you did last summer when we met. Are you not feeling any better at all? It sounds to me like you're again putting all your eggs in one basket. Don't you make yourself go out with friends? Do you play sports at school? You need something to get your mind off your problems, son. You are going to drive yourself crazy. Has your car been fixed yet? How do you drive now? What's wrong with your T? Has she shared that with you? Pls. answer as soon as you can. I've been real busy with drs. app't's. lately and spending alot of time with my grand kids. Since I'm healing up finally I don't spend alot of time at home. I go out, even if it's to the mall and just walking around. I don't sit at home and mope. I could fall into that real easy, but I figure I have to do my part too, as the medicine doesn't do all of it for you. Just something to think about for you. |
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Nov 11, 2007, 09:18 AM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
krazibean723 said: collect 14 pennies (one for each night) and pour them on your nightstand near your bed. each night before you go to sleep, put one of the pennies back into the cup. this way you will be able to visually see the days going by and the time until you see your T smaller and smaller. just a suggestion </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Nice Idea!!! |
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Nov 11, 2007, 09:21 AM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
drummergrl said: Dustin: hey, long time no see!!! What's going on now Dustin? U sound just like you did last summer when we met. Are you not feeling any better at all? It sounds to me like you're again putting all your eggs in one basket. Don't you make yourself go out with friends? Do you play sports at school? You need something to get your mind off your problems, son. You are going to drive yourself crazy. Has your car been fixed yet? How do you drive now? What's wrong with your T? Has she shared that with you? Pls. answer as soon as you can. I've been real busy with drs. app't's. lately and spending alot of time with my grand kids. Since I'm healing up finally I don't spend alot of time at home. I go out, even if it's to the mall and just walking around. I don't sit at home and mope. I could fall into that real easy, but I figure I have to do my part too, as the medicine doesn't do all of it for you. Just something to think about for you. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> DRUMMER!!! I'm so glad to hear from you!! I'm doing my absolute best to try things that my T tells me to to better myself. I have got in the habbit of walking anyday that I have no plans on being out, this way I atleast get out. My car has been fixed actually, thankfully, now I can go see my T, without it, i'd have to rely on my brother who is always "busy". My T's having a Hysterectomy. Her surgery is on wednesday, then she'll be off all the next week =(. I'm so scared. I don't know hwo I"ll make it, 2 long weeks without my bestest friend who takes all my fears and kills them for me. I'm really glad you're keeping busy! That's great!!! Keep it up gal!!! I hope you're feeling better. Lots of love dustin |
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#6
Nov 11, 2007, 03:38 PM
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dustin.........first of all try not to worry about T's surgery.....many women go through it and it turns out fine.....i know that it will be a long 2 weeks without her but lean on your friends here at pc......we'll help you all we can......you'll be ok
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Nov 11, 2007, 09:29 PM
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   Hi!!! How's my moonie doing? That's my boy! get out and walk even if you've no where to really go. I find it helps clear my head, or at least helps to. Sometimes I try to role play along the way and figure out what I might say instead of what I did. Anyway, you have to be in my head to understand that one!!! lol........... How's school? Are you studying hard so you can get into a good college? It's important to know where you want to go next year and what you really want to do with your life. Don't wait til the last minute to know.........otherwise you're going to freak out. Nuff for now. Have a good week. Love ya lots............. |
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Nov 11, 2007, 11:45 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
drummergrl said: Hi!!! How's my moonie doing? That's my boy! get out and walk even if you've no where to really go. I find it helps clear my head, or at least helps to. Sometimes I try to role play along the way and figure out what I might say instead of what I did. Anyway, you have to be in my head to understand that one!!! lol........... How's school? Are you studying hard so you can get into a good college? It's important to know where you want to go next year and what you really want to do with your life. Don't wait til the last minute to know.........otherwise you're going to freak out. Nuff for now. Have a good week. Love ya lots............. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Thanks drummer! Schools going as good as it can be. I'm doing the best I can. Dustin |
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Nov 12, 2007, 08:43 AM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Moonkin said: </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> krazibean723 said: collect 14 pennies (one for each night) and pour them on your nightstand near your bed. each night before you go to sleep, put one of the pennies back into the cup. this way you will be able to visually see the days going by and the time until you see your T smaller and smaller. just a suggestion </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Nice Idea!!! </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> It's much nicer the "other" way where you get something for 14 days :-) I use to use a piece of candy/gum.
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