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Old May 11, 2018, 01:08 PM
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if my T talked about transference in the first or second session, i would have thought she was off her rocker.


I did and the relationship did not really develop any further which I am sad about now because now it would probably work
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Old May 11, 2018, 02:23 PM
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if my T talked about transference in the first or second session, i would have thought she was off her rocker.
I agree....Even now sometimes I go to speak to a friend about it but stop myself as its such a strange concept to explain.
"Yes, I feel like I am in love with a man twice my age that I am not actually attracted to and know nothing about...It's okay though apparently it's totally normal"....hhmmm
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Old May 11, 2018, 07:52 PM
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She says she is a rule follower. It has gotten her this far and made her successful so she won’t change.
That seems like tacit admission that the boundaries are for her benefit.

I found this to be such a con. You purchase a relationship and everything is on the seller's terms.
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