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Old Jun 10, 2018, 08:40 AM
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According to a Facebook post by a mutual friend, T has passed away.😢😢
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 09:03 AM
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I am so very sorry. I hope there is a way for you to grieve with people who knew her. That, to me, would be the hardest thing, to grieve in isolation.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 09:07 AM
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Oh no, I'm so sorry.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 09:15 AM
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 09:46 AM
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 09:47 AM
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I am so very sorry. I hope there is a way for you to grieve with people who knew her. That, to me, would be the hardest thing, to grieve in isolation.
I hope to. T and I didn't have a typical T/client relationship. After 11 years it blossomed into so much more. My children knew her totally seperate from her being my T. One of my children at one time how she was very grandmotherly. They are sad at her passing and have asked to go to the funeral. They also all k ow her boyfriend.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 10:14 AM
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 10:22 AM
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I am truly sorry to hear about her passing, and what it means to you. Some may not understand your grief but your friends on PC mourn with you.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 10:30 AM
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I am truly sorry to hear about her passing, and what it means to you. Some may not understand your grief but your friends on PC mourn with you.
Part of what has gotten me through the past week is PC.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 10:39 AM
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Wow how horrible. So sorry. I hope you are allowed and sble to go to funeral. I can't imagine the pain
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 10:42 AM
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 10:49 AM
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I am so, so, sorry for the loss of your dear t. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 11:11 AM
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oh no, NT I can't even imagine. I have dreaded every time there have been new postings, afraid to read an update. How frightening and awful. I am so so sorry.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 11:29 AM
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I'm so sorry. I hope that you are able to find a way to grieve that helps you heal.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 12:22 PM
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 12:47 PM
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 12:54 PM
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I am so very sorry. My heart goes out to you I can't even imagine.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 01:00 PM
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so very deeply truly sorry for you ♥♥♥
pray you will be able to attend the services and get comfort that you need at this time and for as long as you need it. here if i can be of any help at any time ♥♥♥
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 01:01 PM
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I'm so sorry, NT. I hope you're able to grieve with family and friends and to reach out to your EMDR T too.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 01:09 PM
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Cant even imagine. My ts have always said i would be welcome to attend.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 01:18 PM
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I'm discovering that grief is a very isolating feeling. I hope you're okay. <3
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 01:29 PM
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What a terrible loss. I'm so sorry.

I lost someone important to me recently and a thought that helped me a little was the idea that you keep the love that people give you. So even if your T is gone, her love is always with you.

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Old Jun 10, 2018, 02:11 PM
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I am blessed in that my husband also cared deeply for T as they also knew her; not even close to my relationship but they are all trying really hard. My best friend talked to her on the phone once (long story) and knew of our mutual love and caring relationship. EMDR T gets it. Everybody else I just say somebody I care about very deeply has passef.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 02:17 PM
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What a terrible loss. I'm so sorry.

I lost someone important to me recently and a thought that helped me a little was the idea that you keep the love that people give you. So even if your T is gone, her love is always with you.

All the hugs.
Her love and guidance. I Wil always have her advice and kind words. She was the very first person I told many things to. She was always kind, caring and compassionate. When I felt dirty and disgusting she hugged me and we always accepting and sometimes just there. Because of her I have been able to tell some of the information to those close to me .other stuff we agreed it isn't necessary to tell others. She taught me something that unfortunately never experienced outside of my mom...that there are amazing trustworthy people out there
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 03:07 PM
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So sorry to hear that, sorry for your loss!
Must be terrible because when we get w shock or some awful news the first person many of us want to tell is our t. Lots of hugs, please look after yourself
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