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Old Apr 01, 2018, 09:49 PM
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I saw a counselor of mine the other day. I started havingsexual thoughts about her and I am female then I started to think if she was pretty as a child then she started talking about being molested and that just made it worse. What is wrong wth me?
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Old Apr 02, 2018, 07:09 AM
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I saw a counselor of mine the other day. I started havingsexual thoughts about her and I am female then I started to think if she was pretty as a child then she started talking about being molested and that just made it worse. What is wrong wth me?
It is possible that this is a case of transference? Maybe you could talk to your counselor about what is happening.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 03:38 AM
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There is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone.
And therapy is a good, safe place to explore new feelings.
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 04:27 AM
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Being attracted to a T of the same sex is very very common and there's nothing wrong with it. I would really suggest bringing this up in session even though it may be hard. For the things I found very difficult to talk about I've always emailed it to him. Or could you write it out on paper and hand it to her in person?
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Old Jun 10, 2018, 08:23 AM
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I think the OP is more concerned with the direction of her sexual interest more than just being attracted to her T.
Please correct me if I am wrong though.

...not something you should worry about it may be worth investigating the reasons behind your feelings. All sorts of odd stuff pops up in therapy. People have a mix of parental and erotic transference, that's common too.
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