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Grand Magnate
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I feel like it sounds like you just want a reason that he is ok with to call him. I would suggest if anything just calling to listen to his voice on the phone or something in a voicemail. if you are THAT bad off to go to the ER, I'm not sure what he could really do, going to a ER or a crisis line might be better.
I would say it sounds like he's quite uncomfortable with the idea of being called by clients these days and he wants you to respect that but doesn't want to upset you. I know my T did a lot of stuff for me but if it was a crisis, he would refer me to a crisis line no doubt. I used to call and listen to his voicemail and eventually recorded the voicemail, having that helped. Having it now, helps. I would say it might be worth it to come up with a plan of action for "crisis" stuff that leaves T as a last option. Maybe a good topic for today, he could help you find something else to do step wise. Just thoughts, you don't have to listen to it Also, wow Ex MC answered at 2am? That's pretty rare for a T and amazing. I know as much as mine was awesome, that would be a hell no there. His phone had a certain off time too like your T __________________ Grief is the price you pay for love. |
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