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Old Jan 02, 2021, 05:49 PM
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That alone would have been ok but the 2nd bedroom that would be my office (I work at home) was toooo small. It did have a huge master br though, that we both liked. it's gonna be hard to find a house. there are not many coming up for sale right now and they are snatched up quickly once they do. i keep telling h we need to work with a realtor or whatever instead of just him looking at zillow.
I dont know what its like over there but over here real estate agents have a database of people and whst they want and when a house comes in those people on the db get first stab a lot of houses dont even get on to be advertised because they are sold instantly.
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Old Jan 02, 2021, 05:54 PM
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I have decided i want to watch the Star Wars movies as i have never seen them. Iread the book of the first movie when i was younger. A while ago they were on netflix but now i cant find them and hve discovered you can only stream them on Disney+ or buy them on youtube or from the apple store.. if i am going to buy a movie i will buy it on dvd.
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Old Jan 02, 2021, 06:57 PM
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I dont know what its like over there but over here real estate agents have a database of people and whst they want and when a house comes in those people on the db get first stab a lot of houses dont even get on to be advertised because they are sold instantly.

I'm pretty certain they do here too so we need to get hooked up with one...
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Old Jan 02, 2021, 07:45 PM
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Finished the new lapghan - it's about 35" x 35", so thick and warm!
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Old Jan 02, 2021, 08:54 PM
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So I’ve had a terrible day. Long story short, I’m back home but had to leave the animals at least temporarily with my mother. It’s empty without them.

What do you all think the best and most sensitive protocol is for asking your therapist to reschedule the appointment she had to cancel because her husband died? She said she’d be back to work in January. Do I wait for her to contact me or should I do it?
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Old Jan 02, 2021, 09:35 PM
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It is so weird to be in the house without the pets.
I would give the therapist until around the 15th to make contact and if not, then I would write to set up an appointment.
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Old Jan 02, 2021, 09:56 PM
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So I’ve had a terrible day. Long story short, I’m back home but had to leave the animals at least temporarily with my mother. It’s empty without them.

What do you all think the best and most sensitive protocol is for asking your therapist to reschedule the appointment she had to cancel because her husband died? She said she’d be back to work in January. Do I wait for her to contact me or should I do it?

I'm sorry you've had such a rough day. As for contacting Info, I'd go ahead and do it. Something like you understand if she's not back at work yet, but if she is, you could really use an appointment sooner than later.
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Old Jan 02, 2021, 10:59 PM
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Finished the new lapghan - it's about 35" x 35", so thick and warm!
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Old Jan 02, 2021, 11:35 PM
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 12:31 PM
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I would give the therapist until around the 15th to make contact and if not, then I would write to set up an appointment.
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As for contacting Info, I'd go ahead and do it. Something like you understand if she's not back at work yet, but if she is, you could really use an appointment sooner than later.
Info preempted me by writing this morning. All I could see in the preview was, "First, thank you for your support and care..." and I immediately thought second would be "I'm retiring" or "I've decided to move closer to family."

No, she'll be back to work in two weeks and asked if I wanted to reschedule. I had mailed her a check for the canceled appointment on what must have been either the day before or the day of her husband's death, and she managed to keep track of that. Maybe she's not a total airhead after all.
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 01:16 PM
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Finished the new lapghan - it's about 35" x 35", so thick and warm!
Yay well done!!

It looks lovely.

I love sleeping with the window open and having a soft blanket under my quilt.
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 01:18 PM
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You had to pay for an appointment that she cancelled?
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 01:18 PM
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I'm feeling soppy and just wanted to say I luuurve you guys. Can't believe that I've been here for almost three years. Thank you for all the support you've given me over these few years and thank you for all the genuine laugh out aloud moments too.
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 01:20 PM
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Think it was mailed before info cancelled.

I wouldn't pay for the upcoming rescheduled appointment.
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 01:25 PM
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You had to pay for an appointment that she cancelled?
No, she still has the check. Hasn’t cashed it and it will cover the next session. I’m just surprised she managed to keep track of it in the middle of her husband dying.

Info is pretty good about money. I was exhausted one session and falling asleep and halfway through I just had to stop. She wouldn’t let me pay for the whole session, just the half.
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 01:30 PM
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 02:05 PM
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I'm worried about L's health.
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I just want her to be okay. Maybe it's selfish, but I need her to be okay. She's otherwise very healthy, and happy. I want her to have a long life. I've lost too many people too early.
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 02:14 PM
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Allergies to what, though? I think the flag is allergies to other medicines that might share an ingredient with the vaccines, not food or seasonal allergies.
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 05:06 PM
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Im watching 1997 PBS Rebecca with Diana Rigg. I always thought there had been a fire?! I usually love daphne dumaurier, but i had found this so hard to read in the past. Maybe i will try again, now that i know where its going.
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 05:39 PM
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I'm feeling soppy and just wanted to say I luuurve you guys. Can't believe that I've been here for almost three years. Thank you for all the support you've given me over these few years and thank you for all the genuine laugh out aloud moments too.

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Old Jan 03, 2021, 09:57 PM
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How can the New York Times Spelling Bee not accept the perfectly legitimate word homophage?
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 10:01 PM
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How can the New York Times Spelling Bee not accept the perfectly legitimate word homophage?
Philistines.
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 10:09 PM
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How can the New York Times Spelling Bee not accept the perfectly legitimate word homophage?
Some millennial thought it wasnt politically correct. It means gay cannibal, right?
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 10:12 PM
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Some millennial thought it wasnt politically correct. It means gay cannibal, right?
No, it just means cannibal (same + eat). Doesn’t even have to be a human one. Could be a fish.
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Old Jan 03, 2021, 10:21 PM
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Close but no cigar! i stand by the P.C. part tho.
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