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Roses are falling.
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#961
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#962
stopdog and una should genuinely be on the stage. What a perfect comedic set up, execution and delivery. #1 groupie here. (stopdog will warm to me eventually, no one can resist a groupie for ever, she's only human after all).
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#963
Our act will only use words with the letter k in them, since that movie said they were funny. So far we have ken and ilk.
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Magnet
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Location: in the garden
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#964
__________________ Since you cannot do good to all, you are to pay special attention to those who, by accidents of time, or place, or circumstance, are brought into closer connection with you. (St. Augustine) |
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LonesomeTonight, unaluna
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert of my soul
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#965
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Well, progress over perfection, right? I'm definitely making progress in the area of my relationship with h - as far as letting him manage his own 'stuff' (feelings, etc). In the past I did not know how to do that at all and was constantly making problems where there didn't have to be. I've been able to see in the past couple of months just how much of the problems between us I was causing!! He's not blameless, of course, but working on my part of it has certainly helped a lot. |
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Roses are falling.
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Location: Seattle.
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#966
You do not know our Stopdog, but there is always hope
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Roses are falling.
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Location: Seattle.
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#967
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Do you also do other fun stuff just for yourself that doesn't necessarily involve working on yourself? Maybe that would help you also get out of your head. __________________ |
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Writing my way through...
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Location: In the desert of my soul
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#968
I read and crochet.... I haven't played around with painting in a while, maybe I'll get that stuff out after work one day this week. Thanks.
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#969
*sigh* It looks like H is about to lose another job... Everything I'm dealing with is too much for me!!!
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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#970
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Always in This Twilight
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#971
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Always in This Twilight
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#972
Saw Dr. T's backup, R, today. As usual, she was very insightful (talking about stuff with Dr. T and how it ties into my past). May post more on it later. I see her again Wednesday, too.
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Grand Magnate
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#973
Man, that is a lot to deal with. I'm sorry. This would stress me out. Either he's the unluckiest guy ever or he's doing something that's causing him to lose these jobs. Maybe he needs a therapist to figure this out.
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LonesomeTonight, ScarletPimpernel
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#974
__________________ "Odium became your opium..." ~Epica |
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#975
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1. He's working for little companies that need him because they're failing. 2. He doesn't play office politics. 3. He's remote so it's hard to catch a problem in the moment and fix it in the moment. 4. He thinks he's always right. 5. He's a compulsive liar and exaggerates what he can do or has done. He is good at what he does which is why he tends to find a job quickly. And he does work very meticulously and fast. I just wish he could maintain a stable job. __________________ "Odium became your opium..." ~Epica |
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#976
I talked to L on the phone and it helped some. She told me to let her worry about the logistics of everything that needs to get done before her leave. She told me to let H take care of HIS job problems. And for me to just focus on myself and work on processes all my emotions and staying safe.
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Roses are falling.
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#977
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You are making a lot of progress, no denying that, but I haven't seen you mention your drumming friends in a while. __________________ |
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Roses are falling.
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#978
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4+5 are the most important. Are you eligible for any benefits whilst he's not working again? __________________ |
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#979
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L and I have suggested to him multiple times that we get a divorce so I can bring in some money, too. And EVERYONE has told my dad to claim me a a caretaker so I can get some income that way as well. H is too scared of losing me if we get a divorce, and dad is too proud to admit he needs and has a lot of help. I have even told my dad I'd split the income from being his caretaker. __________________ "Odium became your opium..." ~Epica |
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#980
I was originally going to make my mom the mandala blanket. L came up with an idea to make another blanket for us. She thinks that we can swap the two blankets with each other to "recharge" them. So I decided to make the mandala blanket for us instead. She suggested that I start working on it now because I'm really struggling with boredom. So I told her I want to make it for us instead of my mom, and she was so excited. Now I have to figure these stitches out! The hard one looks to be DC2TOG. The other 3, I think I can do.
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