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Default Aug 31, 2024 at 12:47 PM
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Did you ever get jealous of my PT? My mom and I were talking about this in the car.

Like do therapists ever get jealous of their clients other providers.

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Default Aug 31, 2024 at 01:25 PM
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Dear T,

I kinda miss you now. A little bit.

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Default Sep 01, 2024 at 07:01 PM
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Why did you randomly ask me if I ever had a particular snack you were eating? Seemed a bit of a too friendly question. We aren't friends you know. I have stricter boundaries then you do. I don't go around reffering to my family members by their first names and stuff like that.

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Default Sep 02, 2024 at 12:08 PM
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Hi R,

Well, it looks like I have a meeting with my boss about things tomorrow.
It's all happening rather quickly, and I wish we could talk beforehand.

We'll debrief as usual, though.

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Default Sep 02, 2024 at 12:33 PM
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Just because you saved me last night doesn't mean anything is okay. Nothing is okay. The way you went about it disrespects not only me, but many women with my struggles. And then on top of that, you gave me no time to process it and no time to work on my own issues. Your body, your choice. But it has a great impact on me. I'm still not sure I want to continue with you even with helping me last night.

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Default Sep 02, 2024 at 05:11 PM
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I never thought this could be possible, but I feel safer on the phone with H than I do with you at the moment.

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Default Sep 02, 2024 at 06:50 PM
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Just because you saved me last night doesn't mean anything is okay. Nothing is okay. The way you went about it disrespects not only me, but many women with my struggles. And then on top of that, you gave me no time to process it and no time to work on my own issues. Your body, your choice. But it has a great impact on me. I'm still not sure I want to continue with you even with helping me last night.

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Default Sep 02, 2024 at 10:02 PM
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Dear T,

Hope you're home safely, or at least nearly home. My list of things to talk about with you is ridiculously long. I hope I can figure out what's most important, what I can just give a brief summary for, what can be held for future sessions, etc. I just don't want to get hung up talking about something that I feel is less important or urgent and not get to the other stuff. I suppose I could just say that at the beginning, as I've done that before.

Feeling a little weird about seeing you--anxious, I guess? Maybe mixed with something else. I don't know. I didn't miss you the way I tend to when you're away. But perhaps that's actually a good thing?

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Default Sep 03, 2024 at 11:19 AM
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Hi R,

Well...I've said my piece to my boss now.
Sounds as though she took it on board.

Not every conversation needs to feel like a courageous conversation, though.
I know I have a couple more of those to come.

I'm fed up of being pissed off.
I'm so fed up of being pissed off.

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Default Sep 03, 2024 at 02:56 PM
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Dear T,

Thanks for all that, especially for the positive answer to the question I didn't want to ask about the handshake. And for being warm. Seems like the week out of town did you good. Maybe it did us both good. Perhaps we each needed a break from the other?

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Default Sep 03, 2024 at 04:21 PM
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That's no excuse to getting pregnant. You knew better... You thought you wouldn't be there for me then? Well now you're not here for me now. And you will do this again because of your pathetic excuses.

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Default Sep 04, 2024 at 04:35 PM
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Please tell me you understand that we are not just going to slip back into our 'normal'.
We didn't have a chance to talk about how this new understanding has impacted me, because I didn't know.

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I had fertility treatment for all my children.. I found oothers pregnancy's stung before I had my children, I didn't feel it was anything they were doing too me though it gave me the energy to continue on my fertility quest...
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I was so relieved when I saw the email this morning that you needed to switch to virtual. Idk if I'm avoiding you at this point, but when you switch to virtual yourself then thats not my problem.

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Dear H,

Thank you for holding space for me during this impossible season.
I'm grateful we'll be able to talk again on Monday, and that I now have the option of emailing to set something up if I need to.

Speak soon,

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