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Old Sep 29, 2024, 07:01 PM
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RIP Kris Kristofferson (who I thought had been dead for awhile already).
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Old Sep 30, 2024, 03:57 PM
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Couch Workout Club day 60

I could not allow myself to drop a 60 day streak, so I did a 10 minute bedtime yoga video.
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Old Sep 30, 2024, 06:28 PM
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I went for a walk out in the sunshine today and it helped a little, and keeping busy by creating another chicken crock pot concoction from stuff in the pantry, after work. I don't feel like writing a poem today at all. Lost, your workout streak inspires me, so I am not going to let myself break an 8+ month streak of writing a poem every day just because my head isn't right. I will just write a poem about how I don't feel like writing a poem...

I'm anxious to get started on the medical weight loss program. I'm scheduled for labs & stuff this Friday, and then they'll schedule my first dr appt and prescribe whatever meds. Then I'll be working with a nutritionist too. I know meds aren't the answer to everything but I need help to at least get started. I was talking to my sister about my weight gain since I got this IUD, and she said one of her friends had the same experience after getting hers, and she is struggling to lose it too. So that was validating anyway.
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Old Sep 30, 2024, 06:41 PM
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RIP Pete Rose.
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Old Sep 30, 2024, 07:13 PM
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These things come in 3s my grandmother always said. I thought Pete Rose had been dead for awhile too.
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Old Oct 01, 2024, 01:45 AM
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These things come in 3s my grandmother always said. I thought Pete Rose had been dead for awhile too.
Well, his chances at getting into the Hall of Fame have been dead for 25 years or so…
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Old Oct 01, 2024, 07:43 AM
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Just a short walk around town this morning.
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Old Oct 01, 2024, 01:52 PM
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I just realized something. When I got my most recent order of sertraline a couple weeks ago, there was a letter in there that the manufacturer had changed. Huh, I wonder if the new manufacturer doesn't work as well.... working for a pharmacy I should have realized this sooner!
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Old Oct 01, 2024, 02:45 PM
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I just realized something. When I got my most recent order of sertraline a couple weeks ago, there was a letter in there that the manufacturer had changed. Huh, I wonder if the new manufacturer doesn't work as well.... working for a pharmacy I should have realized this sooner!

That's entirely possible, Artie. It could have a bit less of the active ingredient (I think it needs to be within a certain percentage, but a small amount could make a difference).

Also, thanks for the reminder to take the Paxil I started recently!
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Old Oct 01, 2024, 08:50 PM
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I think my sibling has got some sort of trauma bond with his evil abusive wife. I do not understand it - he can say she gaslights, emasculates, criticizes, and berates him but he cannot find a way to leave. The children are grown (an earlier reason for not leaving) and all they really have is the house but he just won't leave her because she doesn't want a divorce (his words) - I have no idea what is wrong with him. I have a house he can live in rent free, he can find a job here, and our parent has offered to help him as well -but he just keeps going back to her.
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Old Oct 01, 2024, 10:01 PM
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I think my sibling has got some sort of trauma bond with his evil abusive wife. I do not understand it - he can say she gaslights, emasculates, criticizes, and berates him but he cannot find a way to leave. The children are grown (an earlier reason for not leaving) and all they really have is the house but he just won't leave her because she doesn't want a divorce (his words) - I have no idea what is wrong with him. I have a house he can live in rent free, he can find a job here, and our parent has offered to help him as well -but he just keeps going back to her.
The older I get, the more I think the natural human fear of change is what keeps most people in miserable situations.

I’m struggling with it myself in leaving my ableist workplace—hence the setting of a deadline to leave a couple months ago. The deadline is still in force and I’m still preparing for it practically and mentally.
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Old Oct 02, 2024, 09:23 AM
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That is probably the reason versus my diagnosis - that his brain doesn't work.

I am glad to hear you are continuing to prepare to leave your miserable situation.

I think I just don't have his tolerance for misery. It is like several people in his life show him windows and doors and he just rejects those in favor of trying to run through a brick wall. And while I have always had at least 3-9 escape plans going at any given time - he has none.
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Old Oct 02, 2024, 10:56 AM
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Couch Workout Club day 62

Did my step goal twice over walking around the park and town, and then walking to my art class.
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Old Oct 02, 2024, 07:04 PM
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And while I have always had at least 3-9 escape plans going at any given time - he has none.
Are you also like Sherlock Holmes and have bolt holes stacked with disguises all over the city?
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Old Oct 02, 2024, 08:42 PM
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I thought everyone did. I am not that good at the makeup artist part though
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Old Oct 02, 2024, 11:07 PM
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I thought everyone did. I am not that good at the makeup artist part though
No, but you more than make up for that with the scintillating way you say, “Elementary, my dear ex-hankster.”
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Old Oct 03, 2024, 04:13 AM
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Old Oct 03, 2024, 12:18 PM
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Kept the habit with a set of core workout exercises.
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Old Oct 03, 2024, 03:14 PM
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Flipper is really starting to grow on me. His style is different enough from T and yet he manages to connect to me well. We have a lot of common interests it seems, which is kind of funny. But very respecting of boundaries, yet willing to be a human and admitting it.
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Old Oct 03, 2024, 03:47 PM
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I'm glad you're feeling more comfortable with him, CNS.
Feeling at ease with a therapist is so important.
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Old Oct 03, 2024, 07:42 PM
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Flipper is really starting to grow on me. His style is different enough from T and yet he manages to connect to me well. We have a lot of common interests it seems, which is kind of funny. But very respecting of boundaries, yet willing to be a human and admitting it.

Those seem like good qualities for a T. Glad you're working well together!
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Old Oct 03, 2024, 08:24 PM
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I'm feeling a little better this evening. I think it's because I'm officially starting the medical weight loss program tomorrow, going in for weight/measurements and labs. After that I'll have an appointment with a dr, then with the nutritionist. not sure how the mental health part of it works, but I'll find out soon. I'm ready to get started. Going it on my own has NOT been working.
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Old Oct 04, 2024, 12:16 AM
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No, but you more than make up for that with the scintillating way you say, “Elementary, my dear ex-hankster.”
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Old Oct 04, 2024, 04:58 AM
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I'm feeling a little better this evening. I think it's because I'm officially starting the medical weight loss program tomorrow, going in for weight/measurements and labs. After that I'll have an appointment with a dr, then with the nutritionist. not sure how the mental health part of it works, but I'll find out soon. I'm ready to get started. Going it on my own has NOT been working.

I hope you find it helpful, Artie!
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Old Oct 04, 2024, 06:13 AM
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Couch Workout Club day 64

An email conversation with work this morning made me miss my former boss, so I did two sets of my seated boxing workout to get the frustration out of my system.


*curls up on Couch, whimpers*
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