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#1
Apr 06, 2008, 11:24 PM
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mother? father? lover? husband? sibling? friend? other? 
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Apr 06, 2008, 11:34 PM
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Only Child here so sibling N/A
Mother..I'm closer to her now than in past years...but still a No with her. Father...Deceased Friends....maybe I have some church friends I am close to...Yes Lover/Husband...LOL...NO! Others...not sure..????
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Apr 07, 2008, 12:27 AM
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I wish she was someone I could come cry too and put my head in her lap and have her stroke my hair and tell me it will be ok.
Jbug
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Apr 07, 2008, 12:37 AM
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I wish she was my old T...
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#5
Apr 07, 2008, 12:40 AM
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I wish she could be someone I could run to, day or night, good or bad, in urgent news or just to chit-chat. That when she thought of me she could call me up and we could just get together, walk together, talk together while in public outside of the office. That I could curl up like a fragile child in her lap, and feel her hand through my hair, and that would be enough to make everything ok for the moment.
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Apr 07, 2008, 12:50 AM
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I have tried to turn EVERY significant male in my life into "Daddy". T is no different. Same, same , same. Some things never change. One would be justified in asking why I always make a point of going to a male T..............If you figure it out, let me know.
   tulips
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Apr 07, 2008, 01:41 AM
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((((tulips)))))
I wish my t were my life long nursemaid - like in the old days - the one who raised me from birth. cuz then she'd be mine. she'd always be there. i wouldn't feel scared of her because she would have always been the one i ran to in hard times and told her all my problems. and probably, none of this would have happened. then she could retire, and i could go live free
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Apr 07, 2008, 01:42 AM
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OH, I am very happy having my T (pain mgmt doctor) as my T!
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Apr 07, 2008, 02:11 AM
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at the moment... lover / husband. sigh. sigh. SIGH. He is so... nurturing... wish I could reciprocate and make him feel loved. sigh. i'm sure he isn't as nurturing to his wife... but at least he is CAPABLE of being nurturing and capable of being sensitive...
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Apr 07, 2008, 11:49 AM
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I've always wanted mentoring and the older wise woman, someone to "protect my back" as I explore stuff scary to me. Someone I can know will make it all right, the wizard/good witch/old "mother" healer type.
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Apr 07, 2008, 12:03 PM
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Jbug said it best for me. That is exactly what I want too...but he'll never do it.
 
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#12
Apr 07, 2008, 03:51 PM
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Father
If only wishes could come true. |
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Apr 07, 2008, 04:44 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
jbug said: I wish she was someone I could come cry too and put my head in her lap and have her stroke my hair and tell me it will be ok. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I actually dreamed that! Then I had to tell my T about my dream. . . 
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#14
Apr 07, 2008, 06:28 PM
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I am glad T is my therapist. In that role he can be all of your choices but he can also be T, the trained empathic professional who helps me conquer the world!
Peace 
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Apr 07, 2008, 11:13 PM
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Great Uncle.
No, I'm just kidding. I have a history of men (especially older-- but not as old as my T-- he's mid 50s) turning into lovers. This has been a big struggle for me in our relationship as I'm learning I can have an intimate relationship with a man in which there is no sexual stuff going on. I would never want him as my father. That would be too weird. I love my dad. I could never replace my dad, never. Sibling? My 55 year-old brother? Hahaha, I don't think so. I'm so glad to have him as my T. |
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#16
Apr 07, 2008, 11:39 PM
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Keanu Reeves  only kidding! to be honest i just want T to be T and good at her job and to know what she's talking about. sorry to give such a boring answer. |
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#17
Apr 07, 2008, 11:45 PM
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Okay, as long as we are doing this................
Johnny Depp. Hahahahah, sorry. |
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Apr 07, 2008, 11:49 PM
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Barbra streisand...lol....she had 20 years of therapy before she sang and did concerts again....she could sing to me too!!
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Apr 07, 2008, 11:53 PM
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Freud.
Okay, now I'm just getting ridiculous. Time for bed. |
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#20
Apr 08, 2008, 10:44 PM
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Since I am with a female T = Maria from the Sound of Music...kind, caring, gentle, plays the guitar and sings. Plus, she had a trouble-making streak in her while in the Abby. What a PERFECT T So, if it was a male....Matt Damon (nuff said) Who started this ridiculous thread???? 
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