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#26
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<font color="purple"> "I don't know"
Grrr.... I like answers to my questions </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> Kiya said: not even words... but THE LOOK. the look that tells me "Kiya, i have no effing clue what you are talking about." </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> <font color="purple"> I know how you feel, that look makes me sooooo mad It drove me nuts all the time with my old T ...and is why I don't really talk to people about anything too deep. ![]() </font> |
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Hmm..."What are you afraid of?" She says it every stinking week....EVERYTHING!!!
TJ ![]() ![]()
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#28
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"Let me reframe that for you"
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I'm grinning - what is it she said to me the other week when I said I couldn't do something... oh yeah "Kiya, as a Cognitive Behavorial Therapist...." I talked over her saying "Ohhhhh I'm in trouble"... and she continued "Yes (laughing a little) you are in trouble"....
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#30
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"How's that working for you?"
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"We may start to see each other every other week soon"
![]() ...anything she says on my way out the door so I can stew over it all week ![]() "do you understand?" Of course I do, that's why I'm speechless and scowling, 'cause you just told me something I don't want to hear....I understand, I'm PO'd!!!!! |
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I really hate---
"I don't know." "I don't have an answer to that." "I wish I had an answer to that." "I wish I knew what to do." But it's all okay because he's being honest.
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This one I really hate: "I'll see you next time"
I have been weekly for two years and lately twice a week. This just seems so non-commital to me. Granted he hasn't canceled often but it happens. I HATE IT!!!!!
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#34
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I really like this thread. It is interesting that some of the things people report that they really hate their T to say, I really like! What does that mean? One person's poison is another person's delight.
Two things I don't like that T says: "I'll get my computer and check that out." And then he gets his laptop and looks something up on it and it seems to take forever and I cannot get him away from the effing computer and back to my therapy session! "How is the divorce going?" If I wanted to talk about the divorce, I would bring it up.
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> some of the things people report that they really hate their T to say, I really like!
Exactly the same words can mean totally different things, depending on the context, tone of voice, etc.
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I love my t., but I get very tired of hearing him say
"Everything is fluid, life is just like that" and "why are you always so hard on yourself?" I don't know. Just seems reasonable that it's my fault. I think I'm gonna buy him one of those tubes with colored water that tips back and forth. ![]() tulips
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"And how does that make you feel?"
"And what do you think about that?" ... Gah. After every. Single. Sentence. that I happen to say. I guess I can't blame her for being new, but YEESH.
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#38
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"While I'm on vacation, a colleague of mine will be taking my calls."
This is totally prohibited! |
#39
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"Don't be so hard on yourself"
Pointing out that I do it doesn't make it stop, it just makes me feel WORSE and makes me BE harder on myself to stop the behaviour. Nasty cycle.
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"I am not a permanent person in your life. this is not permanent"
"well, it's actually time to stop now. do you want to come back next week?" -of course i want to come back! i don't even want to leave why would i not want to come back. stupid question. "Do you think that borders on obsessive or no?" -um, now i do, thanks. "our goal is to cut our sessions down to just once a week" -no thats your goal. thats not what i want at all! "its hard when what you want and what you need don't match up" and finally, T is not allowed to say: "good-bye"
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