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Old Sep 27, 2008, 07:58 AM
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Old Sep 27, 2008, 08:31 AM
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((((((((((( mouse ))))))))))))) It sounds like you are making progress, it's good that you can recognize that I don't always notice my progress and give myself credit for the hard work. Good job, I know change can be very difficult.
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Old Sep 27, 2008, 09:12 AM
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It's a good thing to give yourself credit for progress, I am sorry if I made you feel bad my T has to point out progress to me I just think it's great that you notice it.
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Old Sep 27, 2008, 10:50 AM
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Hate it....may be necessary to have real relationships with people...but REALLY HATE IT!
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Some people are worthy of sharing our vulnerability with, some are not. Sometimes I put up high walls that keep everyone out, even those that it would be OK to be vulnerable with. I lose. I have to learn not to do that. Sometimes I also cannot seem to accept that some people are not worthy of sharing, trusting, etc. I keep thinking "the best" of those people and am continually disappointed and hurt. I have a lot to learn about all of this.
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Should be fought at all costs?
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Sometimes I also cannot seem to accept that some people are not worthy of sharing, trusting, etc. I keep thinking "the best" of those people and am continually disappointed and hurt. I have a lot to learn about all of this.
Is this the truth. I've spent my whole life keeping people away and then marry someone who does exactly the thing I feared most.



Sorry it just popped into my head :-)

Cool... I just expected the link to appear, not the video... dig it, learned something new.
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It's the hardest part of therapy IMHO, but once you accept it you can actually get somewhere.

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Old Oct 01, 2008, 06:08 AM
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Yes, vunrabilty is the crux of recovery...I guess I must be being vunrable without even realising it in therapy or else I wouldnt be experiencing the emotions I have been experincing with T.....
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