OK... is this COMMON for clients to think??

I just phoned the receptionist and she said my psychologist is absolutely fine
So she didn't die and I didn't give her anything - so she was right and I was wrong, but that's so cool

Kiya - Wow 64 my psychologist is 26/27

Yes, I've had thoughts along these lines too. The 'hit by car' scenario'... also the 'what if he gets a heart attack while I'm there with him in session' scenario - what would I do - could I save him? I guess I have a Onzichtbaar saving T fantasy about that. He is 'getting on a bit' so I do worry - my boyfriend's dad died very unexpectedly just last summer and they are more or less the same age. If he so much as coughs I always ask if he is ok... is he sick? I wonder to myself - do I care purely for selfish reasons i.e. if he weren't here that would be hard for me - or is it through caring. I do care about him, but I have a dependency on him too. If he would kick me out th door, would I still care what happened to him? What do I really know of him above and beyond the therapeutic relationship?

One time I noticed he had a bandage on his leg. I caught a peek as he shifted his leg and there was the smallest gap between his trouser leg and his sock. Of course I had to ask and he perhaps cunningly didn't say what was wrong but did assure me he had gone on a 20km walk the day before and so was 'fine'. In the nearly two years I've been seeing him, he's never once canceled a session - never once been 'off sick'.

Onzi