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Old Apr 30, 2009, 05:51 PM
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I am seeing t - she pushes for weekly but I wamt to go 2x a month
she said I should talk to aunts - mom died and aunts are nice
but they say put on the makeup and get fixxed up and the other
says honey I love you so much and husband comes on to me-etoh
3 x she got confused about brothers - put being she is nice
in the beggining she called non stop and seems a little confused
so I left message to see her in 2 weeks not 1 week
Any input is helpful - Has anyone gone to group therapy?

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Old May 01, 2009, 06:31 AM
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havnt been to group therapy but think you should tell your T about the aunts H coming on to you - she may drop off on wanting you to contact them then.

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Old May 01, 2009, 06:34 AM
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Do you mean that your T was calling you non-stop??
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Old May 01, 2009, 01:24 PM
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yes she was calling non stop- still pushing for weekly sessions
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Old May 01, 2009, 05:39 PM
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hmmm dont know if I would like that.....
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Old May 01, 2009, 05:57 PM
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I am not going to her anymore
she pushes too much ,makes me uncomfortable
so I left her vm saying that
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Old May 01, 2009, 06:04 PM
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I hope you find another T that suits you better soon
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Old May 01, 2009, 06:39 PM
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It feels unethical to me that she was calling you "all the time". I could definitely imagine a therapist expressing a concern, questioning if more sessions would help...my T has done that...but in the end, it is your therapy, and after T has said his/her piece, you get to decide how much/how often to come. Perhaps she totally had your best interests at heart, but this still makes me uncomfortable.

Are you going to look for a new T?? I hope you find the right T for you

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Old May 02, 2009, 11:39 AM
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I have decided to stay with her- I went to her along time ago
I have not told her about my uncle and other things yet
I have trouble making decisions- back and forth - I was really put down and
left out by someone who acted like my best friend- it hurts
we talked things out and I feel much calmer when I come out of sessions
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I have decided to stay with her- I went to her along time ago

we talked things out and I feel much calmer when I come out of sessions

The great talking cure!!!
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Old May 02, 2009, 02:28 PM
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I am not sure what you meant by the great talking cure
but after I left message that I would not be coming back she called and
left message syaing that I seem confused and need more therapy and let's talk it out so we can get you the help -I she hadn't call,I was planning to strt some one knew
What should I do?
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Old May 02, 2009, 07:34 PM
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you have to do what you feel is right for you - I hope it works out well for you and am glad she makes you feel calmer - take care
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Old May 03, 2009, 12:09 PM
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Thanks everyone
I think she is helping with anxiety-high now
Ihave not told her enough about extended family
she told me I was not the trouble maker-in my family
I am better with her- I just hate to talk about some things
but I keep going back and forth with decions due to the anxiety
and i am calmer when I leave- gone 2x
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