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May 12, 2009, 02:21 PM
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Hi everyone,
I am off of work this week because I am changing jobs. I came home to discover my fiance and his mother's car outside our apartment. I asked what was going on and he said "I'm leaving. My health isn't good and I need to go home." He is 31 years old. He has been acting strangely, not being affectionate, staying up until 3 am and waking up a half hour before work, not eating much, and drinking. He recently found out he may not have a renewed contract with his job. What really pissed me off was he gave no notice to me. I went upstairs to the apartment and found his mother and brother moving out his clothes. He left the furniture and said it would only be temporary..I'm not sure I want him back. We started dating 10 years ago.
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May 12, 2009, 02:55 PM
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Oh wow...that is strange....have you heard from him? Other than 'his health' was there anything specific? Is erratic behavior like this out of the ordinary? I can understand why you might not want him back....do you get along with his family? 10 years is a long time to date someone and him to just uproot like that. there is obviously more going on, i can't imagine this is work related........
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May 15, 2009, 07:19 PM
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May 16, 2009, 09:17 AM
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Yup, sounds like you don't want to take him back.
 Maybe you should have your locks changed? Sounds like his drinking - any drug use? - may be the problem, or at least part of it?
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May 16, 2009, 12:33 PM
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Thats theft and the police can be called.....
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May 16, 2009, 05:18 PM
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May 16, 2009, 07:50 PM
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yeah if he took your engagement ring I'd say that relationship is over. I know it's 10 years but hon. You gotta change the locks and start the process of moving on. ~gentle hugs~
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