how can you trust you girlfriend?

My girlfriends ive had in the past are just... let me explain, ill accuse them of cheating because i have evidence you know? And they get mad, then they will actually brake down crying, holding me, hugging me, tell me they love me so much, like i mean its like heart braking, then i found out i was right, so if people can lie this good how do you trust anyone?

Nathan~

A good liar doesn't get caught, (not that I am condoning lying in ANY way). However, at the same time, the effort to maintain a lie relies on another lie, and yet another = The Domino Effect, (a consistant effort of negative energy which exhausts even the strongest of persons).

Anyone who can support that kind of ("skill"..in it's own right), is a vexation to the spirit. And unless you are a glutton for punishment, stand clear of them.

Because it sounds as though this has been a reoccurrence of yours, perhaps it would be in your best interest that you seek companionship in a more trustworthy character of individual, rather than in one who is going to cheat on you? Unless, of course, it is a conscious choice of yours...then you should already be prepared for the inevitable disaster which lies ahead of you?

The ONLY trust you can find in one who is untrustworthy is that they are not to be trusted.
Simple as that.

Shangrala

How old are you, and how old is your girlfriend? Are you 16! If so, do not concern yourself if a 'child' is cheating on another 'child'; concentrate on your schooling and understand that people can and are dishonest at times.

I wish you the Best!!!